from nonstop texting to nothing

[themainattraction]

So I posted another topic on this one girl. We were crazy into each other and she pulled away recently. We haven't texted for two days which never happens. And the weeks leading up to that were just a couple texts here and there. Her friend said she wasn't looking for something serious, which I kind of was, but now my goal is to bed her and take it from there.

I'm determined. I won't be obsessed, but I still want to try. There was something really good going on.

last text she sent was that she couldn't meet last Monday. I didn't respond. I couldn't because she was driving me crazy with how little she showed anything anymore. So now I keep myself distracted but part of me is sometimes expecting a text from her. So I can continue pretending I dont care or I can take action. I just need advice on how to do that.

any ideas of texts that would make mr not seem needy? And immediately set up a date because she doesn't respond frequently anymore.

thanks!

 

[themainattraction]

And just to mention, I've read the articles on texting. But I feel that this is a different situation. Maybe an experienced person can help out?
long story short, we met mid June, started texting probably 100 times/day. Admitted feelings late August, made out, I groped her here and there but no sex. Her texts starts lessening and responses were infrequent (started work and new baby in the family).
I think I ruined it by asking her to hang out too much. But when I finally got to see her last week she said she missed me but that she gets detached easily. So now I'm in this dilemma. I want to reconnect and see her just one more time and make her crave me afterwards. And two days of no texting is a lot for us. After reading the articles I realized I plated it wrong by texting so much and by continually asking her to hang out

but I have hope! I just need some guidance

 

[themainattraction]

Update!

she posted on my fb. Saying she thinks I should paint a picture, and she posts an image.

definitely able to continue off that but man....ive gone from so attached to her and being sad over her to being so independent in just 4 days. And I've read up on so many articles here, coupled with lectures online about positive psychology. I don't think I need this girl in my life

so any advice on what to do? I still wana bed her I just don't wana be attached

 

[Smith]

move on and bed other girls? I think it would be more work just to bed her, and you've already invested so much in her.
Cut off all communication with her for 6 months and see what happens.
meanwhile be happy dating other girls! then you'll realize she's not that great.