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Happy New Year everyone! Just finished reading Chase's Year in Review post on the main site- pretty excited for things to come on this site. Girls Chase has never lost its luster. I'm as fascinated today as I was almost three years ago when I first found it.
This FR has a lot of problems which I will try to sum up at the end. Some of the mistakes I made with this girl... you think I'd have learned my lesson by now.
Opener
Saw this girl (Christina) using the strecher in my gym as I walked in for a workout. She is very cute. 5'6", thin and toned, light brunette hair, small breasts, piercing eyes.
After getting situated I walk up to her (we were alone in the gym) and give her a hard time for using the strecher, asking her if she was authorized and that I might have to see her papers as proof. It didn't go very smooth because she couldn't understand me well. I break the tension and give her a smile and laugh and explain I was just teasing, and that I just thought she was cute and wanted to say hi. She warms up and laughs and gets up and we trade names and a handclasp. I wanted to pull her into me more with the handclasp but forgot to.
She has a heavy accent and I correctly guess that she is foreign. This explains why she couldn't understand me. We talk for a bit. I find out she is an au pair (basically a foreign nanny) from Austria. She mentions that she was leaving. We talk a bit longer, and I tell her that I'm gonna go start my workout but that I'd love to hang out sometime. We trade numbers, and press our bodies together as we do. There was some confusion about what we do, her thinking I wanted to workout with her. I clarified that we could maybe do coffee. We then parted ways. She texts me immediately, and I respond after the workout with a response and a break the ice text, saying let's get together soon.
First Meet
I propose coffee a day later over text, and set it up. She texts me the day of saying she can't make it but that we could work out together tomorrow, which I go along with. We meet the next day after coordinating a time. Didn't know what to expect but wanted to seize on seeing her again right away.
She shows up looking really good. She has on a lot more makeup than I was expecting, gives me a big hug, and is very warm. We work out and talk, and I start touching her more and more. I also gradually ramp up the sexual humor. Was quite the combination. For instance, halfway though the workout after we'd already been pretty ribald, I have her spot me for a bench press set, and innocently have her standing right over my head. I then comment on the good smell and laugh and say "Kidding!" as I grab her legs and push her back and then pull her back into me and she laughs and mockingly scolds me. We were very comfortable with each other.
With things going well I suggest we go grab coffee, and I drive her to a nearby Starbucks. We order the same thing and things are very intimate. We are pressed up against each other and making eyes and teasing back and forth. Within 20 minutes I tell her "Let's get out of here".
This is where things go south. I had no idea where to take her. I drove through a nearby neighborhood looking for a hidden place, but couldn't find one. I ended up driving through my neighborhood, but then settled on a church parking lot. Bad transisiton. Also, there were a bunch of people in the parking lot for God knows why. I was determined to make it work after that bad transistion, so I parked out of sight and started talking.
After a few minutes I manhandle kissed her. I broke it off, talked some more, then did it again. I broke it off again, but instead of repeating the process until she attacked me, the third time I just went for it and we made out for a bit. I then pulled her over to my side of the car, and started feeling all over her body. I either am too quick to go for her pussy, or I lingered too long, but she stops me there. Not doing my best escalation. The terrible logistics are probably the reason why I'm not in the zone (I later found out my dad wasn't home, but at the time was sure he was *facepalm*) We spend probably another 45 minutes in the car. We talk about her sexual past after she accuses me of being a player for going straight for her pussy, and I turn the tables and call her the player which worked really well. In spite of my clumsy escalation she still liked me quite a bit, and we made out a lot and I made more and more headway, fingering her from outside her pants, but I wasn't in control. My fault. She had a curfew set by her host parents, which ultimately was the biggest reason we didn't have sex. Logistics, logistics, logistics... They really are the most important. I drove her back to my neighborhood counrty club where we worked out and her car was, and we talk a bit, and she gives me a big kiss goodbye.
Second Meet
I was mad at myself for escalating when I had bad logistics, and thought I'd never see her again (Also when I found out my house had been an option... egad). However, she responded warmly to me when I reached out, and we agreed to workout again (I have the worst logistics rn, was the best I could do). I had read up on fractionation, specifially Chase's "2 Steps Forward, One Step Back", after my clumsy escalation, and whipped it out on her full force our second meet. She shows up looking just as good, and catches me in the process of lifting a lot of weight haha. Thus began the most sensuous workout, outside of porn, of all time. We were all over each other (gym was empty again). I was feeling her entire body all over and grabbing her butt and her tits and picking her up and a whole host of things, all in the name of working out, and using the 2 Steps Forward, 1 Step Back mentality. She was just as ravenous, rubbing herself all over me and shoving her tits and ass in my face. I was hoping to pull her into a nearby massage room where I would take her, and it was all going swimmingly. But I made two crucial mistakes.
Mistake 1 was defusing the tension instead of just pulling her to the massage room right then and there. This kept things in stasis, which wasn't good. My second mistake was trying to activate her jealousy to get her to take me then and there. I'll explain. There was this other cute girl I had met before who walked in while we were working out, and then texted me saying she was getting dinner with her parents upstairs. I told Christina that there was another girl upstairs and that maybe I should go hang out with her. She did not react well, going a little cold and saying I should, especially when she had me show her a picture of her. I instead had the other girl, Holly, eventually come downstairs to say hi to me, telling Christina I didn't want to leave her. We chatted and then Holly left. By this time we had been working out together for over and hour, and I was long done and knew she was too. But she insisted on staying, and I tried to act as natural and nonchalant as possible, finally being able to charm her into leaving. But like before, she was in control.
I made a lame, Hail Mary attempt to bring her into the massage room, but she wasn't complying, so I aborted and instead we went upstairs. Going up the stairs we were very flirty, her trying to beat me up and me not letting her, and at the top I tried to kiss her but she deflected me and chided me for being so horny for her. Not good. I convinced her to take a drive with me. We had driven through a Starbucks drive-thru, and Christina tried to get me to pickup the server, but I didn't because I wasn't into her (though maybe I should have). We drove around with me feeling her up, but after a while of this she protested and told me to stop. We ended up back in the parking lot, and I gave her the strongest Hard Push I have ever given. By this point Christina was telling me that we could only be friends and that I was leaving town soon with her leaving after, and that she doesn't want to just have sex. I refused to accept her frame and attacked her from all angles for 30 minutes. It didn't work. Finally I let her go, once more not expecting to ever see her again. She tried to get me to come with her and her friends on New Years, but I told her probably not. She gives me a hug and leaves me. I sit it my car for awhile, frustrated with myself.
Third Meet
I didn't contact her for a few days, and didn't plan to ever again. I had been sick the day I saw her, though had rallied to workout and see her. I was very sick the next few days, honestly in part due to the defeat I had taken. Then yesterday, New Year's Eve, I was sick all day but still wanted to celebrate. My only option was to hang out with this friend of mine who I had mostly cut things off with, who was trying to reach out. My dad had no plans and came home from a football game super drunk, so in my weakness I reached out to Christina and once again she invited me out with her friends. I took her up on it, thinking that her friends might be cute and who knows, maybe things will work out with her.
I show up at her house looking good. It was the first time Christina hadn't seen me in workout attire. She opened the door and gave me a big hug, and commented a few times how good I looked. I told her she looked great too. I then meet her friends, all au pairs, and they are all fat. Greaaaaaat...
Christina was all over me, as if our last meet hadn't happened. The problem was she had already been drinking, and told me she was drunk. I couldn't tell how much to believe her. She didn't seem that drunk, but her friends sure made sure to tell me how drunk she was. They got to me, and I didn't want to take advantage of her, so I didn't do anything. I should have! I was way too cautious. In hindsight, I'm pretty sure it shouldn't have been an issue, and she definitely wanted me to take her. What I should have done was take her back to her bedroom, railed her for 2 hours, and then celebrated the New Year with her.
Instead, we all went downtown, she tried to be all haughty with me all night, flirted with a bunch of random guys (all who missed escalation windows I might add), and I my only option was taking over the group with my charisma. I'll spare a lot of the details, but we kept flirting once I'd done that, and at the ten minute mark I shifted all my attention to her, thinking if I could kiss her at midnight I could fix everything.
The clock struck, everyone cheered (we were downtown in a square outside), and I waited for couples around me to start kissing. Literally nobody was kissing though! WTF... so I gave each of my new fatty BFFs a big hug and then looked Christina in the eye. This was after a lot of flirting, and I was feeling so confident, and she wasn't drunk anymore... it didn't work. I tried to manhandle her, but wasn't quick enough. I then told her "You don't want to be my New Year's kiss" to which she gave me a quick smooch, and that was that.
It was very cold, and we all were very intent on going home. Once back at the house, Christina asked me if I was staying or leaving, and I was uncommital, hoping for her to try to get me to stay. Instead after a bit she tells me I have to go, saying she doesn't know when her host parents will be home. I drove away, once again mad at myself lol
Problems
Opening- could have been more smooth, but no real issues
First meet- Logistics. Should have found out how much time she had before a heavy interaction. Transisitons, thanks to not having logistics or a real plan beyond coffee. Uncalibrated escalation where I pushed too far too quickly.
Second meet- not capitalizing on sexual buildup, a failed jealousy plotline, and once more NO LOGISTICS. Ugh.
Third Meet- not capitalizing right away/doing the opposite of what any normal guy would have done. Not going off on my own to meet more girls. Not trying one last time once we were at her house.
If you made it this far, hope it was informative. I'm gonna be mad about this one for awhile. I really let her down throughout a courtship that was so promising...
Ambiance
This FR has a lot of problems which I will try to sum up at the end. Some of the mistakes I made with this girl... you think I'd have learned my lesson by now.
Opener
Saw this girl (Christina) using the strecher in my gym as I walked in for a workout. She is very cute. 5'6", thin and toned, light brunette hair, small breasts, piercing eyes.
After getting situated I walk up to her (we were alone in the gym) and give her a hard time for using the strecher, asking her if she was authorized and that I might have to see her papers as proof. It didn't go very smooth because she couldn't understand me well. I break the tension and give her a smile and laugh and explain I was just teasing, and that I just thought she was cute and wanted to say hi. She warms up and laughs and gets up and we trade names and a handclasp. I wanted to pull her into me more with the handclasp but forgot to.
She has a heavy accent and I correctly guess that she is foreign. This explains why she couldn't understand me. We talk for a bit. I find out she is an au pair (basically a foreign nanny) from Austria. She mentions that she was leaving. We talk a bit longer, and I tell her that I'm gonna go start my workout but that I'd love to hang out sometime. We trade numbers, and press our bodies together as we do. There was some confusion about what we do, her thinking I wanted to workout with her. I clarified that we could maybe do coffee. We then parted ways. She texts me immediately, and I respond after the workout with a response and a break the ice text, saying let's get together soon.
First Meet
I propose coffee a day later over text, and set it up. She texts me the day of saying she can't make it but that we could work out together tomorrow, which I go along with. We meet the next day after coordinating a time. Didn't know what to expect but wanted to seize on seeing her again right away.
She shows up looking really good. She has on a lot more makeup than I was expecting, gives me a big hug, and is very warm. We work out and talk, and I start touching her more and more. I also gradually ramp up the sexual humor. Was quite the combination. For instance, halfway though the workout after we'd already been pretty ribald, I have her spot me for a bench press set, and innocently have her standing right over my head. I then comment on the good smell and laugh and say "Kidding!" as I grab her legs and push her back and then pull her back into me and she laughs and mockingly scolds me. We were very comfortable with each other.
With things going well I suggest we go grab coffee, and I drive her to a nearby Starbucks. We order the same thing and things are very intimate. We are pressed up against each other and making eyes and teasing back and forth. Within 20 minutes I tell her "Let's get out of here".
This is where things go south. I had no idea where to take her. I drove through a nearby neighborhood looking for a hidden place, but couldn't find one. I ended up driving through my neighborhood, but then settled on a church parking lot. Bad transisiton. Also, there were a bunch of people in the parking lot for God knows why. I was determined to make it work after that bad transistion, so I parked out of sight and started talking.
After a few minutes I manhandle kissed her. I broke it off, talked some more, then did it again. I broke it off again, but instead of repeating the process until she attacked me, the third time I just went for it and we made out for a bit. I then pulled her over to my side of the car, and started feeling all over her body. I either am too quick to go for her pussy, or I lingered too long, but she stops me there. Not doing my best escalation. The terrible logistics are probably the reason why I'm not in the zone (I later found out my dad wasn't home, but at the time was sure he was *facepalm*) We spend probably another 45 minutes in the car. We talk about her sexual past after she accuses me of being a player for going straight for her pussy, and I turn the tables and call her the player which worked really well. In spite of my clumsy escalation she still liked me quite a bit, and we made out a lot and I made more and more headway, fingering her from outside her pants, but I wasn't in control. My fault. She had a curfew set by her host parents, which ultimately was the biggest reason we didn't have sex. Logistics, logistics, logistics... They really are the most important. I drove her back to my neighborhood counrty club where we worked out and her car was, and we talk a bit, and she gives me a big kiss goodbye.
Second Meet
I was mad at myself for escalating when I had bad logistics, and thought I'd never see her again (Also when I found out my house had been an option... egad). However, she responded warmly to me when I reached out, and we agreed to workout again (I have the worst logistics rn, was the best I could do). I had read up on fractionation, specifially Chase's "2 Steps Forward, One Step Back", after my clumsy escalation, and whipped it out on her full force our second meet. She shows up looking just as good, and catches me in the process of lifting a lot of weight haha. Thus began the most sensuous workout, outside of porn, of all time. We were all over each other (gym was empty again). I was feeling her entire body all over and grabbing her butt and her tits and picking her up and a whole host of things, all in the name of working out, and using the 2 Steps Forward, 1 Step Back mentality. She was just as ravenous, rubbing herself all over me and shoving her tits and ass in my face. I was hoping to pull her into a nearby massage room where I would take her, and it was all going swimmingly. But I made two crucial mistakes.
Mistake 1 was defusing the tension instead of just pulling her to the massage room right then and there. This kept things in stasis, which wasn't good. My second mistake was trying to activate her jealousy to get her to take me then and there. I'll explain. There was this other cute girl I had met before who walked in while we were working out, and then texted me saying she was getting dinner with her parents upstairs. I told Christina that there was another girl upstairs and that maybe I should go hang out with her. She did not react well, going a little cold and saying I should, especially when she had me show her a picture of her. I instead had the other girl, Holly, eventually come downstairs to say hi to me, telling Christina I didn't want to leave her. We chatted and then Holly left. By this time we had been working out together for over and hour, and I was long done and knew she was too. But she insisted on staying, and I tried to act as natural and nonchalant as possible, finally being able to charm her into leaving. But like before, she was in control.
I made a lame, Hail Mary attempt to bring her into the massage room, but she wasn't complying, so I aborted and instead we went upstairs. Going up the stairs we were very flirty, her trying to beat me up and me not letting her, and at the top I tried to kiss her but she deflected me and chided me for being so horny for her. Not good. I convinced her to take a drive with me. We had driven through a Starbucks drive-thru, and Christina tried to get me to pickup the server, but I didn't because I wasn't into her (though maybe I should have). We drove around with me feeling her up, but after a while of this she protested and told me to stop. We ended up back in the parking lot, and I gave her the strongest Hard Push I have ever given. By this point Christina was telling me that we could only be friends and that I was leaving town soon with her leaving after, and that she doesn't want to just have sex. I refused to accept her frame and attacked her from all angles for 30 minutes. It didn't work. Finally I let her go, once more not expecting to ever see her again. She tried to get me to come with her and her friends on New Years, but I told her probably not. She gives me a hug and leaves me. I sit it my car for awhile, frustrated with myself.
Third Meet
I didn't contact her for a few days, and didn't plan to ever again. I had been sick the day I saw her, though had rallied to workout and see her. I was very sick the next few days, honestly in part due to the defeat I had taken. Then yesterday, New Year's Eve, I was sick all day but still wanted to celebrate. My only option was to hang out with this friend of mine who I had mostly cut things off with, who was trying to reach out. My dad had no plans and came home from a football game super drunk, so in my weakness I reached out to Christina and once again she invited me out with her friends. I took her up on it, thinking that her friends might be cute and who knows, maybe things will work out with her.
I show up at her house looking good. It was the first time Christina hadn't seen me in workout attire. She opened the door and gave me a big hug, and commented a few times how good I looked. I told her she looked great too. I then meet her friends, all au pairs, and they are all fat. Greaaaaaat...
Christina was all over me, as if our last meet hadn't happened. The problem was she had already been drinking, and told me she was drunk. I couldn't tell how much to believe her. She didn't seem that drunk, but her friends sure made sure to tell me how drunk she was. They got to me, and I didn't want to take advantage of her, so I didn't do anything. I should have! I was way too cautious. In hindsight, I'm pretty sure it shouldn't have been an issue, and she definitely wanted me to take her. What I should have done was take her back to her bedroom, railed her for 2 hours, and then celebrated the New Year with her.
Instead, we all went downtown, she tried to be all haughty with me all night, flirted with a bunch of random guys (all who missed escalation windows I might add), and I my only option was taking over the group with my charisma. I'll spare a lot of the details, but we kept flirting once I'd done that, and at the ten minute mark I shifted all my attention to her, thinking if I could kiss her at midnight I could fix everything.
The clock struck, everyone cheered (we were downtown in a square outside), and I waited for couples around me to start kissing. Literally nobody was kissing though! WTF... so I gave each of my new fatty BFFs a big hug and then looked Christina in the eye. This was after a lot of flirting, and I was feeling so confident, and she wasn't drunk anymore... it didn't work. I tried to manhandle her, but wasn't quick enough. I then told her "You don't want to be my New Year's kiss" to which she gave me a quick smooch, and that was that.
It was very cold, and we all were very intent on going home. Once back at the house, Christina asked me if I was staying or leaving, and I was uncommital, hoping for her to try to get me to stay. Instead after a bit she tells me I have to go, saying she doesn't know when her host parents will be home. I drove away, once again mad at myself lol
Problems
Opening- could have been more smooth, but no real issues
First meet- Logistics. Should have found out how much time she had before a heavy interaction. Transisitons, thanks to not having logistics or a real plan beyond coffee. Uncalibrated escalation where I pushed too far too quickly.
Second meet- not capitalizing on sexual buildup, a failed jealousy plotline, and once more NO LOGISTICS. Ugh.
Third Meet- not capitalizing right away/doing the opposite of what any normal guy would have done. Not going off on my own to meet more girls. Not trying one last time once we were at her house.
If you made it this far, hope it was informative. I'm gonna be mad about this one for awhile. I really let her down throughout a courtship that was so promising...
Ambiance
