I'm much the same as above.
The funny thing is that I have two friends who actually say they want to go meet women. Like, every weekend they will call me up looking to go out to meet women, but when we do the same things occur....
- I can't really talk to them, I try to get in a good mood by shooting the shit, and have a drink, then go meet some women. But they just zone out, you can't really converse with them, they just glare at every women around us until the women moves. I try my best to get them to join in some banter and rela but they won't. I find it creepy, god knows what the women around us must think.
- Last weekend I had to keep dragging them back into the crowd as they kept edging to the corner of the bar. I went out for a cigarette at one point and they had moved to standing right outside the ladies bathroom, I even asked the WTF! when I came back in. What was weirder is that the bathroom is in the restaurant part of the place so its just really weird to actually stand there, nobody else was. I had to tell them I wasn't standing there.
- To get them into the crowd, they only way they would was by me getting them seats at the bar. Otherwise they wouldn't go near the crowd.
- They are becoming draining. I literally just didn't enjoy my night out and I felt way off my game around them, I felt like I was their dad or I had to look after them somehow. It just drained me. I really don't want to put myself in that position again.
- I had no success with women as a result of it. I felt like I was babying them and the few times I managed to open some girls, they quickly moved in and said something weird or innappropriate.
- They've been asking for weeks to go to this really "upscale" place so we dressed our best and headed out there... Within an hour of being there, they declared that every woman there was "stuck up" and we had to leave to go somewhere else... 11pm on Saturday night, I was sitting in an old pizza shop listening to them moan... I should have stayed inside with the women.
Most of this was my own fault, I enabled it by actually trying to push them along but I'm kinda done with it. They aren't even fun to hang out with, they are not only bad at game themselves but without even realising, can blow me out of a set too. It's just not worth it with guys like this.