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The importance of qualifying.... does it really matter? It could go both ways?

It was a regular night at the bar and this blonde approached me to start a conversation. I started with compliance like I always do and have her follow me around the bar to where I ended the conversation with:

Me"give me your number"
Her"you want my number" shes looking at me as I.continue to stare straight ahead.
Me"yupp"
Ok here it is.

Later that night.

Me"hey awesome meeting you"
Her"yea, I saw you looking at me, why didnt you come save me from that gangster black dude?"
Me"I thought it was pretty funny actually I wanted to see if he had enough game to get you."
Her "lol thats so rude"

I fell asleep and woke up the next day.

Me"hey, I fell asleep my bad, what are you doing right now?"
Her"woke up nursing a hang over."
Me"come.over"
Her"if I decide to get out of bed ill come.over"
Me"no just come.over"
Her"alright but im in my pjs"
Me"lol perfect, just no trying to seduce me"

Her"im here"

Walk outside get her and walk inside..... and it was super awkward because my sister is sitting on the couch.
Hey girl sister sister girl.... hey hey. Ok lets go. I put on a movie and quickly escalate to sex obviously we have to keep it down because.my sister is in the next room. This girl.... let me twll you guys is a freak, in her purse she has pink handcuffs and a vibrator and a cock ring..... LOL.

Here is where it goes south, I start kissing her and banging her at the same time..... I could taste the fucking cigarettes on her breath and it was such a huge turn off and I just had to finish and call it quits fast I couldnt go anymore I was done. Wellll the breath just turned me off and I didnt want to go any farther with this girl she disgusted me I associated her and her breath together and.just could not Touch her or give her the experience that I wanted to.give her. Havent heard from her since. I recently saw her and she asked if I was ok I told her im sorry but her smoking is a huge turn off its all I could taste.... it would have probably been better to just not sleep with the girl compared to the experience that I gave this girl.... smh lesson learned
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

I've been in a similar situation before, smokers breath can be a huge turn off or distraction. However, apologizing to her was a bad move...not that it matters since you are no longer interested right ;) I'm curious how she responded when you mentioned her breathe turning you off?
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

She got really self conscious about it and covered her mouth when she talked to me, she said this will be a problem.wont.it. I said yea its going to be. Shes like ill try mints or brush my teeth not smoke before I see you. I am.actually texting her right now funny that you ask.
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

The fact that she is willing to do that goes to show how invested and badly she wants you man. If the breath was the only issue then GET ER DONE SON ;)
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

Lol, yea all the girls I'm talking to, are paying games to get me jealous though right now. Any advice on that? Like the stop thinking about her, and don't chase then pertain to before you slept with them. However, I've slept with them all and still can, in chases one article he talks about not letting it get to you and probably should walk away from girls like this. The answer is to walk away isn't it?
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

Well there is a couple of things to realize, firstly that it is a game to try to manipulate you into wanting her more. Whether done subconsciously or not. So personally I would walk away as I try to cut off as much unneeded drama from my life as possible. The other thing I'm wondering is the type of girls you are generally going after? Are they generally insecure etcetc or could there be something you did to make them act as such? I'm going to assume you had this handled and they are just being a pain though
 
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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

Probably a combination of both. Generally yea they both are insecure which is a damn shame because Sam is a model and is gorgeous in my opinion. Which is going to be hard to walk away from, because I have a great connection with Samantha. I tried the friends with benefits thing with her but she is playing the sometimes doesnt answer my texts and we havent talked in a week she texts me to ask how she looks in her new sun glasses I but I said fine havent heard from her. The other one came up to.me and said why didnt you save me from those two guys hitting on me all night when she was flirting back. I told her she is a grown woman and can grab my attention when they want it. Lol but all five girls seemed to.pull the exact game at the same time. You will see my post about.two best friends who got jealous at me because I was sleeping with one and the other I almost slept with and they both told me not to tell a soul and slept with each other. So yea generally a lot.of drama caused by them wanting me.to.chase them and, me not giving them much attention.

They all tell me that they are surprised that im talking to them, I mean.ive done a lot of work on myself and.I get a ridiculous amount.of.looks. Sam started her drama when a girl straight eye fucked me and made it.obvious inmean.stared me.up and down the whole time.she.walked by and gave sam.a.dirty look so, its just to the point where you are right its probably best to let.them all.go. but now how?
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

You can either just fade away or just straight up be honest and tell them how you feel
 

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Re: LR FU shes a smoker lol

Hey whizzy, we def killed two birds with one.stone on this.post. took.your advice and let them.all.go. it was obviously harder for.me than them and it.sucks balls.right now to have let all.my pussy go. You guys make.me.stronger the advice the fuck.ups the lay reports its.all.inspirational. as chase always says keep.it scarce makes you want it more and leads to better things. So here is.to.all.you awesome ass people... and to.me.moving.on.

Thanks
 
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