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AspiringStoic

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I'm not thinking about quitting, I've been in the game for years now and it is my preferred way of meeting people. The only trouble is, it's not going past a number close, often times.

Maybe I should have pushed for the instant date on this occasion? The girl did say she wasn't doing much and just going to have lunch. But then I didn't want to seem like a guy with nothing on.

It's just, I would have thought a 10 minute interaction would have been enough. The only thing was I didn't plan the date in advance. I suggested one activity, then she said she had already seen it, so then I made a vague other suggestion which even I can't remember.

The problem is, the city where I approach is small so there are only so many girls I can approach. I do hesitate in non ideal situations to avoid a cringe approach as well. It is not the size of city where you can go crazy and approach every chick you see.

I was supposed to go up to London today but it's torrentially raining.

Also, London is far away and thus setting up dates is impractical and a lot of girls are not in London for long anyway. So day gaming in my local city makes sense, but the volume isn't there to deploy the skillset on a mass scale so every phone number counts.
How many approaches have you done in the last 3 months? How many numbers have you gotten out of those approaches? And have all of them not replied to you?


Dont tell me what you have done for years, just specifically for the last 3 months. Lets see if we can diagnose this.
 
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AspiringStoic

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Oct 21, 2023
Messages
430
I'm not thinking about quitting, I've been in the game for years now and it is my preferred way of meeting people. The only trouble is, it's not going past a number close, often times.

Maybe I should have pushed for the instant date on this occasion? The girl did say she wasn't doing much and just going to have lunch. But then I didn't want to seem like a guy with nothing on.

It's just, I would have thought a 10 minute interaction would have been enough. The only thing was I didn't plan the date in advance. I suggested one activity, then she said she had already seen it, so then I made a vague other suggestion which even I can't remember.

The problem is, the city where I approach is small so there are only so many girls I can approach. I do hesitate in non ideal situations to avoid a cringe approach as well. It is not the size of city where you can go crazy and approach every chick you see.

I was supposed to go up to London today but it's torrentially raining.

Also, London is far away and thus setting up dates is impractical and a lot of girls are not in London for long anyway. So day gaming in my local city makes sense, but the volume isn't there to deploy the skillset on a mass scale so every phone number counts.
How many approaches have you done in the last 3 months? How many numbers have you gotten out of those approaches? And have all of them not replied to you?


Dont tell me what you have done for years, just specifically for the last 3 months. Lets see if we can diagnose this.
 
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