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Hi fellas,

the situation is the following. I met a friend on Saturday, he was with some friends of his at a bar and then they were going to a concert later that night. I sat next to a girl and we were chatting like 1-2 hours she liked me immediately. Initially i had some other plans for the night other than staying with them, and when this girl understood she was like, cmon come with us, its gonna be fun. And i went with them to the concert but we split the group on the way. When we were already at the concert when she saw me she was like, oh i thought you would not come, she was very happy to see me. As the concert was going i slowly stared being more intimate with her. and reached a point I hugged her as if shes my gf, but did not kiss her yet. At one point she said i am going over there and i said ok. Then the concert ended 5-10mins later. i thought we were going somewhere else after the concert so i really acted as if i dont care, maybe my fault here. Then she left with her friends without saying goodbye. On Sunday i found her on facebook and she added me as a friend. I texted her on Monday(following the article What to Text Girls to Get DATES) - "“Hey xxxxx, what’s your schedule like this week?”". She answered "I will have a look and will let you know tomorrow:)". So this tomorrow was yesterday, so i was wondering what to do in this situation. I mean one day delay is not the end of the world, but maybe she is playing i am not easy game. What are your thoughts? What should i do, wait, text her something? Thanks
 

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Ignore her. Let her contact you back when she is ready.

Don't get in touch with her again for at least 2 weeks if still no reply.

She needs to understand that you're a busy person, and that you're time is valuable... especially for other chicks ;)
 
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just got a reply. she says she is ill and is taking antibiotics and says she will be available later this week and asks when i am free..
 

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there you go.. that didn't take long lol.

Just tell her its cool, hope she gets well soon, and tell her to text you again when she is fully recovered.
 
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why not shoot straight for the date? something like

Just tell her its cool, hope she gets well soon, and suggest Saturday evening.
 

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DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT suggest a specific date. If she is busy, then you have to suggest something else and at that point you are now chasing her through her calendar. Ask her what days she is free and pick one. :)
 
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