Hey folks,
I think I've had a problem lately with girls in my social circle and girls at work. I'm in my early 20's en route to a professional career. I consider myself above average in looks and a successful individual (for what it's worth). Naturally, girls almost always seem to ask if I'm in school or what my future plans are. They're always impressed but I think it displays too much value and is hurting my game. This is easier to deflect when doing a cold approach but it can be tough to do in social circle interactions.
I figure my value is slotting me in the provider category. These girls are mostly in their very early 20's so someone with their shit together could be intimidating. Anyway, how do I not put myself in the boyfriend category in situations where I can't really deflect? I've tried to stay super humble but it doesn't seem to do the trick.
Ray
I think I've had a problem lately with girls in my social circle and girls at work. I'm in my early 20's en route to a professional career. I consider myself above average in looks and a successful individual (for what it's worth). Naturally, girls almost always seem to ask if I'm in school or what my future plans are. They're always impressed but I think it displays too much value and is hurting my game. This is easier to deflect when doing a cold approach but it can be tough to do in social circle interactions.
I figure my value is slotting me in the provider category. These girls are mostly in their very early 20's so someone with their shit together could be intimidating. Anyway, how do I not put myself in the boyfriend category in situations where I can't really deflect? I've tried to stay super humble but it doesn't seem to do the trick.
Ray
