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CookMasterChef

Space Monkey
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Hey you guys. Haven't posted in a while been approaching like crazy but it hasn't been going the best. I have gotten a lot more approaches and gotten more phone numbers than ever. Approach anxiety is practically non exsistant and I've gotten better at gauging my energy. I even had a date yesterday that went well. Got a girl to take me to her room even though nothing happened. Then all in the same day I got a lay with a girl whom I matched on tinder a couple days ago. With all of this success I have still been experiencing a growing anger towards women. I have been noticing my progress but also notice where Inam failing. My rate of numbers to dates is horrible. I've probably gotten 25 numbers with in the first week of school but have only set up three ddates. The girls that may seem receptive either never text back or just text me till I ask them out. I think that my sexual vine isn't strong enough or I have been going to direct. Most every time I try to direct approach because I do not like to beat around the bush. I feel that my convos are to platonic and not enough deep dive even though I try every time too. I need to implement more fun into my convos and make them more enjoyable to be apart of. These are things that I need to work on to get better. Oh and framing my framing fucking sucks. Now with that being said i still feel that my results should be better than they are. I remember getting girls was never this hard when I as younger. It's like what changed. I Kronos that o am getting more and more angry at girls in general that I know will influence my interactions. I guess it's cause I don't get why the girls I feel I should be getting so I'm taking it out in my head on all girls. I guess my question is are their any articles or any advice I can use to give me a brighter outlook on life and on meeting girls.

Thanks guys. Sorry for the mush of words was doing this on my phone
 
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CookMasterChef said:
My rate of numbers to dates is horrible. I've probably gotten 25 numbers with in the first week of school but have only set up three ddates. The girls that may seem receptive either never text back or just text me till I ask them out. I think that my sexual vine isn't strong enough or I have been going to direct. Most every time I try to direct approach because I do not like to beat around the bush. I feel that my convos are to platonic and not enough deep dive even though I try every time too. I need to implement more fun into my convos and make them more enjoyable to be apart of.

You're doing good, man.
First of all, keep doing what you're doing and keep learning.
But the biggest epiphany for me this year has been....this is NOT a job. This is supposed to be FUN!
Dating, seducing, fucking women...is supposed to be FUN. It's not supposed to drive you crazy, it's supposed to be enjoyable.
So make it fun! And make it fun for the girl!
"Girls just wanna have fun," ever heard that before?
So make it FUN for her and make it FUN for you!!
Even if she's being shitty, make it fun.
Even if she's not responsive to your approach, how can you walk away from that knowing that you still enjoyed it and had fun with it?

Because...how you make it fun regardless of the outcome is entirely up to YOU!!
 
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