Getting approached by multiple groups at once


Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Sep 21, 2016
Have you dudes ever had it where you walk into a room / gathering / bar and multiple social circles come up to you at the very same time?

It puts you in a weird position where you must either give a little attention to all of them which isn't satisfying to anyone, or you give a lot of attention to one and a tiny bit to the other (if at all), showing immediately who you prioritize and hurting your attainability with one or more groups.

You can show all the groups attention later, but in that initial moment I feel like your reaction says a lot.

I'm referring to guys and girls, not just groups of women.

Those who have dealt with this, what's a way that you've responded and why?