Getting back into the game

[mjreed0803]

For the past year now, I've basically blocked myself off from the world of dating, flirting, and other women, so I could pursue my, now ex, girlfriend. I remember using the articles from girlschase, and it helped me land her (and a number of flings before her).

But after a year off from "the scene", the skills I had established now feel non-existent. It really hit me yesterday at the bar. A few of my buddies and myself went out, and a group of girls started talking to us, but I completely froze up like I was in high school again. After a few minutes of attempting to make conversation, it became clear that I totally forgot how to be charming, sexy, and all of that. I eventually just grabbed my beer and sulked off defeated.

Is there any advice that you'd recommend, or a particular article I should start with?

 

[Nova]

sounds a bit like when somebody who is great with women takes a bit of time off to focus on other things. he stops routinely going out and chatting to women, bringing them home etc - and then one night he decides to go out looking for a gal and he finds himself a bit rusty.

rust is easy to remove though, give that man a couple of nights to re-familiarize himself and he gets his mojo back in no time.

same for you i would think. just get back into going out/socializing/talking to girls, read up on some articles here if you like and i'm sure everything will come back to you pretty quickly. quicker then it look to learn it in the first place anyway.

 

[mjreed0803]

I guess it was more of a shock factor that things went so badly. But I appreciate the advice