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After taking a break from streetgame for a few weeks I went out today around 6pm with an enthusiastic wingman. We first warmed up with cute girls walking on the street, he managed to get 2 numbers from that. Today was a pretty nice day since there are local celebrations and everyone is in a good mood. The writing is bound to be stilted as I'm writing this soon after it happened in the late midnight.
EVENT #1:
As my wingman approached a single girl while we were walking to the bar street, I went over and sat on the steps leading to a church. There were hundreds of people around the church and the bar street connecting to it. While he was busy with his approach I was checking out all the cute girls passing by and drinking on the street, then I saw a girl appear on my left as she walked towards me and sat down. She said "Are you here by yourself?" So I started to deep dive her immediately and get her hooked into a solid conversation. I quickly noticed she was quite tipsy. She told me things about her studies, travels, inspirations and dreams. When my wingman came back, he saw the situation, so he went over to approach the friend of the girl I was talking to. Later, the friend of the girl told my wingman that "she went over to meet that guy" when asked about my girl. As the conversation progressed, I increased physical contact, so now I was gently squeezing her thighs and we were holding hands while talking. When she asked me if I knew who that guy was, talking to her friend, I made a bet with her that we would go and have a drink at my place if I won. She wasn't expecting me knowing him, so when I called him over she saw her defeat. As I had previous experience of losing girls at night by the street/bars, I was weary of random friends bumping into girls I was in a conversation with. My fear became a reality when a group of her friends came by us and they introduced themselves to me, thankfully there were no single guys in the group so I decided not to ignore her friends and got acquainted with them. After 20 minutes or so, I told her that she had to keep her word and come with me for some drinks, but she said she had to stay with her friends and that she couldn't leave them. I persisted on moving her but she kept resisting. (I come across this quite often, and I hate it more than rejection or approach anxiety. Girls resisting on moving by saying they must stay with their group. I need to find a way around this. I'm thinking that the obvious "social pressure" problem is: she doesn't want to be judged by her friends if she leaves them to go somewhere with a new guy, alone.) So she suggested that we meet at the same place in an hour, since she'll have time afterwards. I said fine and started walking back to another party with my wingman, where we had EVENT #2.
After the second event, I went back to the same place, and found her standing by her friends. I started chatting with her again, and we sat down, then I tried to move her and told her we should continue to party when she told me she had to sleep in her friend's house. I told her she could go back and sleep in her friend's house afterwards but after some period of persistence, I felt like I was acting too needy/pushy so I stopped. Our hands were locked and we were sitting side by side when she said, okay I want to spend time with you, so let's meet tomorrow right here. I told her 9pm was fine and that she should write her number on my phone, so we agreed on a date tomorrow. She stood up to shake my hand, so I told her "At least give me a hug!" and I knew at that moment I should have kissed her by either telling her to close her eyes or just by telling her I'll be kissing her but I didn't, now I feel a bit like a pussy for not doing it, as our eyes were locked for a long time, hopefully this increases sexual tension for tomorrow, as physical contact increased with no way to release it, unless she has sex tonight with someone, which would suck balls. I'll text her tomorrow 15 mins before our date to see if she's coming, and if she's there I'll walk her back to my place for some food/wine/film and good love making.
EVENT #2:
There were two cute girls standing by themselves and one of them was discreetly crying. My friend approached her boldly and asked her if her boyfriend left her, which turned out to be true. In short, we introduced ourselves, got to know the girls on a deeper level and then my friend started asking increasingly more sexual questions to them. The girls turned out to be 19 and 15, and since the age of consent is 16 here, the girl I was talking was not viable for me. It's really interesting to see how girls can open up their sexuality when asked nonchalantly. It turns out they had a threesome (FFM) a month ago. We then asked them whether they kissed each other, so when that question didn't even phase them we knew they were well into their experimentation stage. I asked the girls to make out, just to see if I've improved on my voice of authority, and saw a very hot make out session appear in front of me, as they french kissed each other. By this time, while supporting a massive erection, I was irritated that these girls had boyfriends and the one I was talking to was underage so I noticed it was the time to meet the first girl by the church, so I left these two girls, and thought how much of a lucky bastards their boyfriends are.
I'll update this after I see how tomorrow's date goes, or whether it does at all.
EVENT #1:
As my wingman approached a single girl while we were walking to the bar street, I went over and sat on the steps leading to a church. There were hundreds of people around the church and the bar street connecting to it. While he was busy with his approach I was checking out all the cute girls passing by and drinking on the street, then I saw a girl appear on my left as she walked towards me and sat down. She said "Are you here by yourself?" So I started to deep dive her immediately and get her hooked into a solid conversation. I quickly noticed she was quite tipsy. She told me things about her studies, travels, inspirations and dreams. When my wingman came back, he saw the situation, so he went over to approach the friend of the girl I was talking to. Later, the friend of the girl told my wingman that "she went over to meet that guy" when asked about my girl. As the conversation progressed, I increased physical contact, so now I was gently squeezing her thighs and we were holding hands while talking. When she asked me if I knew who that guy was, talking to her friend, I made a bet with her that we would go and have a drink at my place if I won. She wasn't expecting me knowing him, so when I called him over she saw her defeat. As I had previous experience of losing girls at night by the street/bars, I was weary of random friends bumping into girls I was in a conversation with. My fear became a reality when a group of her friends came by us and they introduced themselves to me, thankfully there were no single guys in the group so I decided not to ignore her friends and got acquainted with them. After 20 minutes or so, I told her that she had to keep her word and come with me for some drinks, but she said she had to stay with her friends and that she couldn't leave them. I persisted on moving her but she kept resisting. (I come across this quite often, and I hate it more than rejection or approach anxiety. Girls resisting on moving by saying they must stay with their group. I need to find a way around this. I'm thinking that the obvious "social pressure" problem is: she doesn't want to be judged by her friends if she leaves them to go somewhere with a new guy, alone.) So she suggested that we meet at the same place in an hour, since she'll have time afterwards. I said fine and started walking back to another party with my wingman, where we had EVENT #2.
After the second event, I went back to the same place, and found her standing by her friends. I started chatting with her again, and we sat down, then I tried to move her and told her we should continue to party when she told me she had to sleep in her friend's house. I told her she could go back and sleep in her friend's house afterwards but after some period of persistence, I felt like I was acting too needy/pushy so I stopped. Our hands were locked and we were sitting side by side when she said, okay I want to spend time with you, so let's meet tomorrow right here. I told her 9pm was fine and that she should write her number on my phone, so we agreed on a date tomorrow. She stood up to shake my hand, so I told her "At least give me a hug!" and I knew at that moment I should have kissed her by either telling her to close her eyes or just by telling her I'll be kissing her but I didn't, now I feel a bit like a pussy for not doing it, as our eyes were locked for a long time, hopefully this increases sexual tension for tomorrow, as physical contact increased with no way to release it, unless she has sex tonight with someone, which would suck balls. I'll text her tomorrow 15 mins before our date to see if she's coming, and if she's there I'll walk her back to my place for some food/wine/film and good love making.
EVENT #2:
There were two cute girls standing by themselves and one of them was discreetly crying. My friend approached her boldly and asked her if her boyfriend left her, which turned out to be true. In short, we introduced ourselves, got to know the girls on a deeper level and then my friend started asking increasingly more sexual questions to them. The girls turned out to be 19 and 15, and since the age of consent is 16 here, the girl I was talking was not viable for me. It's really interesting to see how girls can open up their sexuality when asked nonchalantly. It turns out they had a threesome (FFM) a month ago. We then asked them whether they kissed each other, so when that question didn't even phase them we knew they were well into their experimentation stage. I asked the girls to make out, just to see if I've improved on my voice of authority, and saw a very hot make out session appear in front of me, as they french kissed each other. By this time, while supporting a massive erection, I was irritated that these girls had boyfriends and the one I was talking to was underage so I noticed it was the time to meet the first girl by the church, so I left these two girls, and thought how much of a lucky bastards their boyfriends are.
I'll update this after I see how tomorrow's date goes, or whether it does at all.
