Getting her schedule

[Amadeaus]

I've been having some difficulty getting good info from girls so I can ask them out. It seems like I have to ask a girl out 3 times for the the planets to align. Whats a better way for me to phrase "whats your schedule look like this week(or weekend)?"

The reality is that my schedule is insanely flexible b/c I get to make my own work hours. Ideally, I would like to be in the office pounding out some multimillion dollar code from 8-4 and then do some happy hour drinks. I'm also downtown, so I can grab a quick lunch almost anywhere. I don't let them know all that, but really if they would just respond with something better than "working and studying", then we could get this ball rolling.

Also, I have a windows phone.. while I think I may want to retire the tinder account, my phone makes tinder messaging a pain. A girl messaged me at 9:30am, my phone didn't alert me. I didn't get back to her until maybe 2:30. I get pretty annoyed when people wait 5 hours to respond to me, so I don't really want to be that way towards anyone else. She is taking a while to get things going with, and I dont think a 5 hour delay is gonna help me at all.

 

[PrettyDecent]

Amadeus,

What's the whole text look like?

My text conversations always look this:

Me: Glad to have met you - Nick
Her: Nice to meet you too
(Next day)
Me: Hey Ashley! Thinking we ought to grab those drinks this week. How's your sched lookin?
Her: Sounds lovely! I'm free Tuesday and Wednesday night if that suits.

Give that template a try, and if it I doesn't work, try seeing if there's something you can improve on your fundamentals or conversational abilities during the approach.

Hope that helps, bro

~Nick

 

[Amadeaus]

Thanks PrettyDecent,

Now that I think about it, we were just messaging and then I just asked her what her schedule was looking like this week. I definitely should throw the date suggestion out there, then ask about her schedule. I guess if you just ask what their schedule is, the are probably wondering what the hell you have in mind and may be a little more reserved.

Thanks again, man.