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AsianPersuasion

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I'm glad to say since I've discovered this site, I've never had to pay for a date. What I've found is that a lot of girls insist that they pay their own way, right before I even get a chance to bring it up, and the rest very willingly pay for me too if I ask...

But it likely won't be that easy should I get more success with daygame... So what happens if the girl does try to enforce social norms on me asking her to pay for me? In an article from a while ago, Chase told the story of the Latina girl that got mad at him for asking her to pay for him, and I'm assuming she didn't pay for both she and Chase without at least some persuasion on Chase's part..

So how do you go about pulling that off if she resists? I could use the excuse of not bringing money with me because I expected her to pay, but is there any other way people have gotten that to work?
 
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AsianPersuasion said:
I'm glad to say since I've discovered this site, I've never had to pay for a date. What I've found is that a lot of girls insist that they pay their own way, right before I even get a chance to bring it up, and the rest very willingly pay for me too if I ask...

But it likely won't be that easy should I get more success with daygame... So what happens if the girl does try to enforce social norms on me asking her to pay for me? In an article from a while ago, Chase told the story of the Latina girl that got mad at him for asking her to pay for him, and I'm assuming she didn't pay for both she and Chase without at least some persuasion on Chase's part..

So how do you go about pulling that off if she resists? I could use the excuse of not bringing money with me because I expected her to pay, but is there any other way people have gotten that to work?

To avoid getting into scene if she does insist heavily, you might want to pay. Because

1)Moral Superiority
2)White knights
3)People today carry credit cards
4)Unless you dress up like you just woke up, Most people do bring some cash with them.

So in order to minimize damage in any circumstances, in my opinion.

Bring her to a cheap coffeeshop.

Zac
 

AsianPersuasion

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Thanks Zack!

I'll avoid pushing it too much if I ever find one that gets ruffled by the request
 
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