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I know that cold approach and online dating are the two go to advice on pickup forums for getting hot girls but I want to talk about the other option, social circle game and making yourself a part of her world.
What I have found with online dating is that a lot of the good looking girls are either fake profiles or there for validation, not the best way to get quality. Cold approach is better but I hate the idea of having to rely on it and I notice that it comes with some downfalls. The truth is that most girls are not down to have sex with some stranger on the street that they just met and I have noticed over the years that you're practically playing a numbers game and having to rely on a lot of luck to make things work. I won't debate with you guys on whether or not cold approach is ideal, the truth is all of us should know how to do it and have it as a tool in our arsenal but in this thread I want to talk about the social circle aspect of game.
I look at a top tier fraternity at some American universities and notice that due to constantly interacting with some of the better looking sorority sisters on campus, they have a leg up on other girls who aren't in the fraternity. Now as we transition to the real world, Greek Life does not exist (thank god!) but I was trying to learn more about approaching pickup in a different way as a guy who has only relied on cold approach and online dating.
My question is, what types of lifestyle choices can you make, what activities/hobbies can your pursue, and how can you get yourself into a social circle that is loaded with a lot of good looking women to where you're not just a stranger approaching her?
I know getting into an activity JUST for hot girls is a bad idea and they'll pick up on the thirst but I was looking for ideas along this line.
What I have found with online dating is that a lot of the good looking girls are either fake profiles or there for validation, not the best way to get quality. Cold approach is better but I hate the idea of having to rely on it and I notice that it comes with some downfalls. The truth is that most girls are not down to have sex with some stranger on the street that they just met and I have noticed over the years that you're practically playing a numbers game and having to rely on a lot of luck to make things work. I won't debate with you guys on whether or not cold approach is ideal, the truth is all of us should know how to do it and have it as a tool in our arsenal but in this thread I want to talk about the social circle aspect of game.
I look at a top tier fraternity at some American universities and notice that due to constantly interacting with some of the better looking sorority sisters on campus, they have a leg up on other girls who aren't in the fraternity. Now as we transition to the real world, Greek Life does not exist (thank god!) but I was trying to learn more about approaching pickup in a different way as a guy who has only relied on cold approach and online dating.
My question is, what types of lifestyle choices can you make, what activities/hobbies can your pursue, and how can you get yourself into a social circle that is loaded with a lot of good looking women to where you're not just a stranger approaching her?
I know getting into an activity JUST for hot girls is a bad idea and they'll pick up on the thirst but I was looking for ideas along this line.

