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getting investment from a girl

shaneawi

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What are some ways to get investment from a girl when you first meet her?

Is having a conversation with a girl and having her tell you about her personal life getting investment from the girl or is it chasing?
 

Drck

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It depends how you look at it. There are many ways she can invest into you, basically everything she does for you or to be with you is a good investment.

She can be asking lots of information about you, which means she is interested in you. It is good, but you don't really want to tell her too much about you. You want her to talk a lot about herself. Say she talks 70% of the time, and you 30%... That is good, she is exerting more energy than you, she feels good about talking about herself, and she still doesn't know much about you - which will keep her curious in the future.

She can start texting you or calling you first. That is good, she is thinking about you that is why she is contacting you. You can also prompt her to do something for you, for example: "Hey, why don't you find out about XYZ and text me tomorrow before lunch, maybe we can work on it later on afternoon...". So basically you are (1) telling her to do something for you, if she (2) does it she is compliant/following what you told her (she is thinking about you, she iss investing by doing something to be with you later on), and (3) you pre-set a date for tomorrow afternoon, now she is already expecting to see you tomorrow afternoon....

She can be compliant, e.g. you ask her to do something for you and she does it. Hand me this, bring me that, come with me and so on. She is investing her time and effort to be with you.

She invites you some place, just so you and her are together, away from the crowd. That is good, you should go.

She buys you stuff, even something small like coffee or water, ticket to some place...

She drives to place where you at, she picks you up, drives you around...

She start touching you,...

... and so on.


The ideal situation is when she does it on her own, without you asking for it.


Also be careful to overdo it, e.g. you don't want her to keep doing things for you without you moving "things" forward, that shows insecurity. Always remember the goal of seduction - you eventually want to end up with that girl in the bed, thus you should always keep in mind that you have to keep "things" moving forward - you simply don't want to get stuck on approaching, compliance, investing, deep diving and so on...
 
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