FR: Tinder Date
The story begins at that link. I went on a date with a cute brown girl, Jody and it went well. The date was at Burger King at lunch time for a hour ( because she had somewhere to go). We have so much in common and I feel I did good keeping the conversation interesting. I deep dived and kept a flirty vibe. ( In my opinion) she enjoyed the date so much that she asked me to go to a bar or chill one on one with her that night. Unfortunately it didn't happen because her Grandma would have to give permission besides it was already 11pm and her grandma haven't picked her up.
So we decided to call it a night. I went to a bar and she hung out with some friends till Grandma came for her. This was last week Friday.
I've texted her since but she takes hours to reply. If I say " hi " at 10:00am, she doesn't say " hey " till 3:00pm usually ( for example). It kills my vibes. I want to ask her out again but I feel it would be too weird for us to have a 10 texts conversation over 2 days.
What I usually do before asking for a date ( Re : chill out) is whatsapp them girls and crack a few jokes, then after Xyz girl has laughed twice or more I ask and get the date more often than not.
Last night I sent her a funny video, she sent one back, I sent laughing emojis.... She was online. I talked to other people and Jody didn't reply even a hour after. She was offline whatsapp a few minutes .. When she comes back online I text " oh you are back ". She replies " I didn't go anywhere though ".
I left the conversation at that because I don't know how to reply. I don't want to ask her out and get into a situation not conducive to bedding her ( example : a walk in a amusement park that's far from anywhere I can pull).
She's a busy young lady ( it seems ). Many times she's online and takes hours to reply. Maybe she's texting a lot of guys too so I empathize with her. ( On the date she told me there are 300+ guys who messaged on Tinder that she can't bother to answer to. ) Lucky me lol.
On the date I forgot to ask :
1) Who she lives with
2) Who she spends the day with at home
3) If she shares the bedroom ( probably that's too personal)
4) If she's comfortable bringing people she recently met home
All those things I couldn't ask in a hour date because it would look " a way " or " weird ".
My only options are :
A) Convince Jody to take a hour bus ride to my city ( seems very difficult. Note : I wouldn't take the bus with her. I'd only meet her in my city and take a 10 minutes taxi drive to my friends house, D'jean . He has really good logistics , a big house and own room. He's also a natural ( age 19 who's slept with over 60 girls).
B) Go to her place
I spoke about this briefly in the "FR: Tinder Date.
In summary my questions are :
1) How should I text her ? ( she doesn't text me first)
2) How do I ask for the date ?
3 What's the best way to find out her logistics without being creepy?
4) Side note : I think it would be best to meet her for lunch and go to her place then. Advice ? It's possible that if I pulled her in the night, her parents could be home.
Troy
The story begins at that link. I went on a date with a cute brown girl, Jody and it went well. The date was at Burger King at lunch time for a hour ( because she had somewhere to go). We have so much in common and I feel I did good keeping the conversation interesting. I deep dived and kept a flirty vibe. ( In my opinion) she enjoyed the date so much that she asked me to go to a bar or chill one on one with her that night. Unfortunately it didn't happen because her Grandma would have to give permission besides it was already 11pm and her grandma haven't picked her up.
So we decided to call it a night. I went to a bar and she hung out with some friends till Grandma came for her. This was last week Friday.
I've texted her since but she takes hours to reply. If I say " hi " at 10:00am, she doesn't say " hey " till 3:00pm usually ( for example). It kills my vibes. I want to ask her out again but I feel it would be too weird for us to have a 10 texts conversation over 2 days.
What I usually do before asking for a date ( Re : chill out) is whatsapp them girls and crack a few jokes, then after Xyz girl has laughed twice or more I ask and get the date more often than not.
Last night I sent her a funny video, she sent one back, I sent laughing emojis.... She was online. I talked to other people and Jody didn't reply even a hour after. She was offline whatsapp a few minutes .. When she comes back online I text " oh you are back ". She replies " I didn't go anywhere though ".
I left the conversation at that because I don't know how to reply. I don't want to ask her out and get into a situation not conducive to bedding her ( example : a walk in a amusement park that's far from anywhere I can pull).
She's a busy young lady ( it seems ). Many times she's online and takes hours to reply. Maybe she's texting a lot of guys too so I empathize with her. ( On the date she told me there are 300+ guys who messaged on Tinder that she can't bother to answer to. ) Lucky me lol.
On the date I forgot to ask :
1) Who she lives with
2) Who she spends the day with at home
3) If she shares the bedroom ( probably that's too personal)
4) If she's comfortable bringing people she recently met home
All those things I couldn't ask in a hour date because it would look " a way " or " weird ".
My only options are :
A) Convince Jody to take a hour bus ride to my city ( seems very difficult. Note : I wouldn't take the bus with her. I'd only meet her in my city and take a 10 minutes taxi drive to my friends house, D'jean . He has really good logistics , a big house and own room. He's also a natural ( age 19 who's slept with over 60 girls).
B) Go to her place
I spoke about this briefly in the "FR: Tinder Date.
In summary my questions are :
1) How should I text her ? ( she doesn't text me first)
2) How do I ask for the date ?
3 What's the best way to find out her logistics without being creepy?
4) Side note : I think it would be best to meet her for lunch and go to her place then. Advice ? It's possible that if I pulled her in the night, her parents could be home.
Troy
