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There's been a girl whom I've noticed for some time now.
I've been walking at the corridor at the Uni, and I would notice her looking at me while sitting by a bench near me, a bit forward along the corridor with her friends. I didn't really make any note of that, only thinking that she does seem familiar from somewhere. I tried to remember but didn't recall any clear memories. Perhaps we had at best shared some eye play in the past, but nothing more. I didn't know her name, nor had we never shared any mutual courses.
This happened many months ago.
A few weeks later I was at the dining hall, when I noticed her again with a few of her friends and a guy. She glanced at least once at me, kept eye contact for a few seconds and then continued talking with her friends. Later I made note that she left the place holding hands with the guy (I was eating so that my eye view was to the exit of the diner)
Remember that I didn't keep looking at her after the first eye contact (didn't "creepstalk" her), I simply noticed that she was there and went to take a seat and started eating.
I concluded, "Well she seems to have a boyfriend.", and continued my day.
A thing happened again, a month or a two later when I was one day talking with a friend of mine
I was talking with her, when I had a weird feeling. I glanced to the side while talking to my friend and there she was, 5 to 10 meters away talking with a friend of her, and once again looking at me while talking. I didn't turn my eyes away this time but kept looking at her.
I was actually a bit irritated, like "What's this girl's problem? You have your boyfriend.".
She had some guts - didn't appear nervous but just watched there for a several seconds, while not showing any emotions, talking at the same time to her friend and then eventually returned her focus (and eye view) smoothly to the conversation she was having.
She seems to be a person with a temperament. Could be a club diva but its hard to tell.
One last occasion happened when I was eating at another diner of the Uni. As I was walking to an empty table, I noticed her sitting by a table to the side of me, browsing a phone. She had a table packed full of her female friends and didn't notice my glance.
I turned my view almost immediately from her and decided to just forget about it.
I browsed news from the phone but grew bored eventually and started to look around the room while sitting at my table.
My eyes ended eventually to her table. She was facing away from me, but then I noticed a friend of her, looking at me from behind a pillar. The pillar was blocking her eye view to me if sitting normally, so she had pushed her body just a bit to the side (I noticed this as I glanced to the table once again later. This time she was sitting normally and was completely situated behind the pillar.)
I was like, "Wtf? Now her friends are looking at me? Wow, what an honour."
What is this girl's problem?
Is she interested in me, or has she put me to the "campus creep" category and that's why she keeps watching me. If this is the case then good luck to her, declaring me a campus creep when she's the one doing the stalking.
Women are really weird sometimes.
PS. If she's interested in me then day game is a no zone. She seems almost a bit arrogant so it's certain that she would raise her cold shield if I would just go to her and, "Hi. I've noticed you keep looking at me. Want to grab a coffee at the local?". This would probably jeopardize her status in this friend group of her and she would just tell me to leave.
Night game would be more probable, building a connection and then taking things forward from there.
But yeah, I'm not going to share too many thoughts regarding her. I have a good vibe going on and there's lots of women around.
I'm simply interested of your opinions on this.
I've been walking at the corridor at the Uni, and I would notice her looking at me while sitting by a bench near me, a bit forward along the corridor with her friends. I didn't really make any note of that, only thinking that she does seem familiar from somewhere. I tried to remember but didn't recall any clear memories. Perhaps we had at best shared some eye play in the past, but nothing more. I didn't know her name, nor had we never shared any mutual courses.
This happened many months ago.
A few weeks later I was at the dining hall, when I noticed her again with a few of her friends and a guy. She glanced at least once at me, kept eye contact for a few seconds and then continued talking with her friends. Later I made note that she left the place holding hands with the guy (I was eating so that my eye view was to the exit of the diner)
Remember that I didn't keep looking at her after the first eye contact (didn't "creepstalk" her), I simply noticed that she was there and went to take a seat and started eating.
I concluded, "Well she seems to have a boyfriend.", and continued my day.
A thing happened again, a month or a two later when I was one day talking with a friend of mine
I was talking with her, when I had a weird feeling. I glanced to the side while talking to my friend and there she was, 5 to 10 meters away talking with a friend of her, and once again looking at me while talking. I didn't turn my eyes away this time but kept looking at her.
I was actually a bit irritated, like "What's this girl's problem? You have your boyfriend.".
She had some guts - didn't appear nervous but just watched there for a several seconds, while not showing any emotions, talking at the same time to her friend and then eventually returned her focus (and eye view) smoothly to the conversation she was having.
She seems to be a person with a temperament. Could be a club diva but its hard to tell.
One last occasion happened when I was eating at another diner of the Uni. As I was walking to an empty table, I noticed her sitting by a table to the side of me, browsing a phone. She had a table packed full of her female friends and didn't notice my glance.
I turned my view almost immediately from her and decided to just forget about it.
I browsed news from the phone but grew bored eventually and started to look around the room while sitting at my table.
My eyes ended eventually to her table. She was facing away from me, but then I noticed a friend of her, looking at me from behind a pillar. The pillar was blocking her eye view to me if sitting normally, so she had pushed her body just a bit to the side (I noticed this as I glanced to the table once again later. This time she was sitting normally and was completely situated behind the pillar.)
I was like, "Wtf? Now her friends are looking at me? Wow, what an honour."
What is this girl's problem?
Is she interested in me, or has she put me to the "campus creep" category and that's why she keeps watching me. If this is the case then good luck to her, declaring me a campus creep when she's the one doing the stalking.
Women are really weird sometimes.
PS. If she's interested in me then day game is a no zone. She seems almost a bit arrogant so it's certain that she would raise her cold shield if I would just go to her and, "Hi. I've noticed you keep looking at me. Want to grab a coffee at the local?". This would probably jeopardize her status in this friend group of her and she would just tell me to leave.
Night game would be more probable, building a connection and then taking things forward from there.
But yeah, I'm not going to share too many thoughts regarding her. I have a good vibe going on and there's lots of women around.
I'm simply interested of your opinions on this.
