Gf moving away PLEASE HELP!!!!

[Phillyeagles99]

I'm in high school and I love this girl I've been seriously dating for almost a year. The only problem is that I saw her for the last time yesterday because she's moving to Indiana and I live in Arizona. This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I am going out less and I'm not being myself.

We have talked about our relationship and we both really wanna marry each other some day but we both are leaning towards putting our relationship on hold because we will only see each other like 5 or 6 times a year.

We both have 2 more years of high school. I love her so much and I really don't know what to do. Can anyone please help me out here? What should I do regarding the relationship and how should I start treating her? I know this is a great community and will help me when I am desperate for answers. thanks so much for taking the time to read

 

[Phillyeagles99]

Phillyeagles,

Hey bud, I'm sorry about your circumstance. It sucks when a good relationship has to end because of something out of your control.

Here's the thing, your super young, a talented athlete, I would bet reasonably popular in your school, and that your gf is pretty darn cute. I'm sure you are a super nice and genuine guy.

Givin that you'll be split up, I would end the relationship on mutual terms and get it in your head that she will immediately start dating other guys. This isn't bad on her or on you, it's just the nature of cute girls. Especially young cute girls and she will be sought after in her new Highschool. It's a tough reality to face and I know how strong first love can feel. However, the faster you move on from this girl the better off you will be.

You absolutely will look back at this relationship when you are older and think "ahh I was young and stupid and it was fun, but I can't believe I was taking about marriage and what not!"

Now, if you can handle these truths, which can be really tough to handle when you're young and in love, here's what you should do when you've moved on in a month or two.

Go to Highschool parties, flirt with the slutty girls at your school, buddy up with the "alpha males" on your foot ball team, and start getting social circle experience, and start learning how to get what you want from women. When you get to college you'll already be decent with girls. Then you'll be in a good place to start learning cold approach. It won't take you long to be awesome at cold approach given that your a high status athletic guy already. If you learn cold approach after already being good with the girls in your Highschool, you will never have a problem dating beautiful women and making faster friends wherever you go. This site and cold approach will also teach you to be an action taker and a leader, so monetary success will be sure to follow. Really do read the articles on the site, especially the ones by Chase.

Consider yourself lucky to have found this so young. If you believe your girl is different, and you choose not to follow this advice, just wait to the arguments start in a few months and she asks for a break since your so far apart. Then come back to this thread and start learning then.

Good luck bud! Time is on your side here! And trust me, love is not a one time deal, you will hopefully love many women throughout your life, and the more you live and the more experience you get you'll realize that the love you have is truer. Young love is deceiving because it's strongly emotional but rarely logical or practical or really real.

Radeng

Thanks a ton radeng, you made me feel a lot better and that is a great answer and I will apply it immediately. I will try my best to become more rational and keep things in prospective and take things day by day.

God bless