Hello everyone, this is my first Field Report.
TLDR : A girl I think I could have pulled completely killed the mood with her political comments.
I was invited by people from my dance class to a dance bar in the evening.
The prospect of going there stressed me out quite a bit, but since I need to improve, I forced myself to go.
The atmosphere was actually pretty good, and I was complimented by many women on my progress in dancing, which I think increased my sexual confidence.
There was a girl at the party who I found particularly cute and who was quite inexperienced in her dancing. I went back to her several times during the evening to teach her how to dance, while also dancing with other women, including other attractive girls her age, in front of her to increase my preselection.
We had a lot of fun dancing and talking together, and she was very compliant with me, apologizing every time for not being a good dancer. I reassured her each time, sometimes by teasing her a little, and I think I built up a pretty good rapport with her that way (attraction developed quite naturally with the physical contact involved in dancing).
One problem was that she drank a little too much during the evening, around three pints of beer, which must have made her too uninhibited. I tried to drink some of her beer, which she spontaneously offered me when I asked her what she was drinking, but not enough.
The evening comes to an end and we find ourselves alone in the bar. I think she was interested enough in me to isolate herself with me at the end of the evening.
I start to think that I might be able to sleep with her. Unfortunately (or fortunately, in the end), there are people at my place, my logistics are bad, so I try to see if I can go to her place.
I start asking her where she lives. Since she says she would have liked to continue dancing, if my logistics had been good, I could have invited her to my place to continue the evening.
I ask her if she has a speaker at her place, and she says no.
To change tactics and not dwell on a name, I ask her what she does for a living to take the pressure off. She tells me about her job, and everything is fine until she drops a bombshell: she says she refuses to work for certain groups of people, for ideological reasons.
I found this statement very offensive, and even though I respect her right to have her opinion on any subject, at that moment I lost all desire to get intimate with her.
I remain impassive, before talking to her a little about my work to be polite, then leaving and wishing her a good evening.
Overall, I found this interaction very instructive in terms of learning how to seduce women. I realize that I am quite good at developing an outwardly detached attitude towards women, largely because I went to the bar without any specific goal in mind, which took a lot of the pressure off.
I am aware that it is essential to avoid talking about politics with a girl in the context of seduction, so I was a little surprised when the conversation took that turn when I asked her about her job.
TLDR : A girl I think I could have pulled completely killed the mood with her political comments.
I was invited by people from my dance class to a dance bar in the evening.
The prospect of going there stressed me out quite a bit, but since I need to improve, I forced myself to go.
The atmosphere was actually pretty good, and I was complimented by many women on my progress in dancing, which I think increased my sexual confidence.
There was a girl at the party who I found particularly cute and who was quite inexperienced in her dancing. I went back to her several times during the evening to teach her how to dance, while also dancing with other women, including other attractive girls her age, in front of her to increase my preselection.
We had a lot of fun dancing and talking together, and she was very compliant with me, apologizing every time for not being a good dancer. I reassured her each time, sometimes by teasing her a little, and I think I built up a pretty good rapport with her that way (attraction developed quite naturally with the physical contact involved in dancing).
One problem was that she drank a little too much during the evening, around three pints of beer, which must have made her too uninhibited. I tried to drink some of her beer, which she spontaneously offered me when I asked her what she was drinking, but not enough.
The evening comes to an end and we find ourselves alone in the bar. I think she was interested enough in me to isolate herself with me at the end of the evening.
I start to think that I might be able to sleep with her. Unfortunately (or fortunately, in the end), there are people at my place, my logistics are bad, so I try to see if I can go to her place.
I start asking her where she lives. Since she says she would have liked to continue dancing, if my logistics had been good, I could have invited her to my place to continue the evening.
I ask her if she has a speaker at her place, and she says no.
To change tactics and not dwell on a name, I ask her what she does for a living to take the pressure off. She tells me about her job, and everything is fine until she drops a bombshell: she says she refuses to work for certain groups of people, for ideological reasons.
I found this statement very offensive, and even though I respect her right to have her opinion on any subject, at that moment I lost all desire to get intimate with her.
I remain impassive, before talking to her a little about my work to be polite, then leaving and wishing her a good evening.
Overall, I found this interaction very instructive in terms of learning how to seduce women. I realize that I am quite good at developing an outwardly detached attitude towards women, largely because I went to the bar without any specific goal in mind, which took a lot of the pressure off.
I am aware that it is essential to avoid talking about politics with a girl in the context of seduction, so I was a little surprised when the conversation took that turn when I asked her about her job.
