Girl asks me for my number then ignores my texts...Confused!

[killerman]

Right, so got this situation now and it's soooooo frustrating. Met a cute arabic girl a couple days ago. Stopped her on the street and we had a short convo. She was blown away I approached her like that with her saying "no one does that in my country" then she asks for my number saying she'd like to get to know me and wants me to call her so she's got my number. Only the second time that's happened to me where the girl asks for my number before I ask her for hers. I give it to her, tell her we should have a coffee/tea. Texted her afterwards but still no reply. I know she could be busy, it's only been 2 days, however the thing that's so frustrating was that not only was this girl cute but it just felt sooo easy. I had a feeling at the time that it felt too good to be true. Why is it that she hasn't replied? I reckon it's because she might be into me too much and she's put shitloads of pressure on herself to do well with me, like Chase talked about in one of his articles so I'm gonna try and persist with this one, text in about a day or two. What do you think?

 

[trashKENNUT]

killerman,

More about the women. If a women does this sudden upward spiral like "no one does that in my country" or "that's so sexciting" or whatever, i prefer you try something else.

It's common to happen to me. So i am working on investment. Pushing aside she putting pressure on herself, she is either eccentric or feels she didn't invest so you just another guy she gives contact and feels that she's the boss. This kind of women do exist. Because i do things occasionally like this where power dynamics shift according to ME!. It's a "me culture" thing. I don't know why though but due to a feminized society, expect this to be common ten years down the road.



Zac

 

[killerman]

So would you say this girl would rather have a beta male?

 

[trashKENNUT]

killerman,

So would you say this girl would rather have a beta male?

Not really. Because you never know what's going on in her life. You don't know what she wants. I would prefer to say some women prefer investments upfront. (In fact, everyone does not know what they doing with their lifes)

When this situation arises, i highly recommend using

1)radio silence when she does not respond.
2)Invest in her in small consumptions by texting one day and then ask her out to meet you directly the next day and rinse and repeat,
3)and get her out. Meet her, sexually ramp up the tension,
4)then use date compressions if not possible to land her.

One might say that is too much work but some women require initial investments, like a company lolx. She's like the narcissistic girl that Chase writes on his article. Here, we do not know yet if she is narcissistic, eccentric or she feels like she didn't invest or she just playing around.

Prettydecent noted on women being more dominant today, if i am not mistaken, and Chase noted on narcissistic women. There is a need for 'some' investment or should i say 'comfort', and do it so without killing yourself. I don't think you should spend too much on a girls when they behave like this, but take it as a project and realize that you can accidentally enter into relationships with such women, you also need to tolerate the "me culture" bullshit that is happening around. And the ironic thing is i even do it with people where i unconsciously shift the dynamic to where i am the one in power instead. Not good for building relationships but this is happening around us. You drive people nuts.

Zac

 

[killerman]

Well she certainly did invest because as soon as i opened my mouth telling her i thought she was cute, she started bombarding me with all these questions asking where i was from, what i did for a living etc. In fact this is the second girl to have just bombarded me with questions asking about myself and even the previous girl who did this I couldnt get her out, which is strange. however would you say she asked for my number because she felt she HAD to be the dominant/aggressive one, and not necessarily because she was into me?

 

[Drck]

Girls are masters of deception. She promises to go for a date, she even offers a date, but then she never shows up.... She says she will do this or that for you, but then she never does it... She asks you for a number, but then she never text back...

We cannot really go by what she says - we have to go by what she does....

So read her actions, not her words...

 

[trashKENNUT]

killerman,

Well she certainly did invest because as soon as i opened my mouth telling her i thought she was cute, she started bombarding me with all these questions asking where i was from, what i did for a living etc.

IT happens with

1)masculine women
2)super skeptical women
3)crazies

In fact this is the second girl to have just bombarded me with questions asking about myself and even the previous girl who did this I couldnt get her out,

You actually fail her screening or her pre requisites, you would say. I'm looking for best way to handle it. Unless she is super into you, turning the screening over to her won't help or don't do so well.

Use entry barrier article for now.

however would you say she asked for my number because she felt she HAD to be the dominant/aggressive one, and not necessarily because she was into me?

By her screening you, she is minimizing her damage, if you will.

So yea, in a sense, she is the aggressive one. Also, "me culture" plays a part where people use people for own gains, and we all do this. The thing is unless you are valued and this varies with different people, you going to have a hard time getting girls, and this happens with girls and feminism. They think they are high valued when they practically do nothing aside from make up and do 'cocaine and champagne' diet (as Tyler RSD would say)

She can be into you and she can be dominant. This is why it is so important to push things forward. Because you never know everything from her until you get intimate, and even then you still never know enough. This is what Drck is trying to note.


Zac

 

[killerman]

What do you mean I failed her screening? Is it that I failed to come across interesting enough when she asked me those questions or that I didn't put the focus back on her?

 

[trashKENNUT]

killerman,

What do you mean I failed her screening?

It's an indirect screening or passive screening. Given an example, you date a girl, you don't spend money on her for the first date and second date, that is passive screening too.

Is it that I failed to come across interesting enough when she asked me those questions or that I didn't put the focus back on her?

No. It is not that you fail to come across as interesting enough. It is more about her, as a person. You noted that she start bombarding you with questions. Your mistake that i can highlight is that you probably straight away answer her questions without batting an eye lash. Anyway, doesn't matter. Try texting her, radio silence if doesn't respond. Then give her a call.

You don't lose anything.

btw, can you remember how the conversation went after you compliment her? the notes will help.

Zac