Girl becomes annoying after sex?

[Imblue]

Not sure if anyone has noticed this. It might be more of a LTR thing. I’ve noticed that my wife becomes much less docile the day after sex. Usually she’s a pretty obedient wife. But the day after sex she seems to be much more comfortable asking me to run errands or challenging something I say and she’s more independent and less clingy.

I thought after sex she’d be more docile, especially after good sex which establishes my high value. I like to think I’m pretty good at sex. I fuck the shit out of her and she usually orgasms or gets close to orgasm. She’s always open to sex whenever I feel like it. And actually she’s the one asking for us to have more sex.

Her state the day after sex has become so annoying to me that I’m actually less interested in having sex with her lol.

 

[Will_V]

Not sure if anyone has noticed this. It might be more of a LTR thing. I’ve noticed that my wife becomes much less docile the day after sex. Usually she’s a pretty obedient wife. But the day after sex she seems to be much more comfortable asking me to run errands or challenging something I say and she’s more independent and less clingy.

I thought after sex she’d be more docile, especially after good sex which establishes my high value. I like to think I’m pretty good at sex. I fuck the shit out of her and she usually orgasms or gets close to orgasm. She’s always open to sex whenever I feel like it. And actually she’s the one asking for us to have more sex.

Her state the day after sex has become so annoying to me that I’m actually less interested in having sex with her lol.

Never had this issue, but have you tried being more dominant and commanding in the bedroom? What's your behavior and attitude post sex?

This might help.

 

[ProblemSolving]

But the day after sex she seems to be much more comfortable asking me to run errands or challenging something I say and she’s more independent and less clingy.

The sex that you are providing is too validating (Nice Guy). Usually when you validate a woman you will start to get undesirable behaviors cropping up. Sub-consciously she thinks, "This guy REALLY loves me, let's see if I can make him do this."

Ways that you validate her during sex:

Going down on her
Complimenting her body, pussy, etc.

Like Will_V said, you are going to need to be more dominant in bed. You should be a king in bed, not a peasant.

I fuck the shit out of her and she usually orgasms or gets close to orgasm.

C'mon man, this is your wife. You should know if she came or not. You should be able to get her off in your sleep. She should be creaming all over your dick and left spasming and convulsing when you are done with her.

Her state the day after sex has become so annoying to me that I’m actually less interested in having sex with her lol

This is precisely how a masculine man should feel whenever a girl brings any bitchy energy to him. You should feel less motivated to spend time with her, which is what makes her more attracted to you in the future. Good job here.