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ramshead

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This girl has been constantly testing me lately. We have been going out for a few months we have sex each time. For the past 2 weeks she has initiated contact in suggesting she wants to hang out. Like today.

Her- WYD
Me - chiling at my pad
Her - do you have any plans
Me - Its still early but nothing set
Me - And u any plans

And she left it at that at 3pm

Last week she bailed on me after she had told me the day before she wanted to hang out with me and then said she couldnt go out on the day we were going to chill at my house. I know shes attracted to me not sure why shes testing me, for some reason its starting to seem like shes testing me to see how i would react or take it to the next level or see if im needy.

When she said sorry last time i just said it was no big deal. I know if she wasnt interested in me she wouldnt even hit me up.

Any suggestions on how to handle this or say to her.
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Probably wants you to ask her on a proper date.

The correct response when asked if you have any plans is to say "I was going to do XYZ at 3pm. You are welcome to join me. " If it is intriguing enough then she will come and you can take it from there. Doesn't have to be any thing fancy, but it should be doing something, not just hanging out...
 

ramshead

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She did I Texted her last night to go out today. I she called me back that she wanted to get sushi. It’s our first former date but I’m still going 50/50 on the bill lol
 
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