Girl Deletes My Photos. How to Handle This?

[Troy]

I had a girl delete my photos when I lent her my phone. . I feel very hurt that she did this without my permission. What should I do? There is a time to feel angry and I feel very angry, it's a big loss.

Lesson learnt: Don't leave your phone open to no girl. No exceptions. .

Troy

 

[ray_zorse]

Was she deleting photos of herself in which she thought she looked ugly? If so it's kind of understandable (but still unacceptable). Otherwise it's just malicious. Correct action would depend. First way you could try to talk to her and explain how selfish that is, she (probably incorrectly) assumed she looked fat or whatever, and deleted a photo in which you or your buddy might have looked great. Ask her if she even bothered to look at the rest of the photo, or did she just narcissistically go straight to her own image to check how she looked. Chances are she did. But anyway, no point crying over spilt milk. I keep all photos I take, no matter what. And I explain this to girls and refuse to let them delete.
Ray

 

[trashKENNUT]

Troy,

Don't borrow your hand phone ever.

why women delete your photos?

1)Auto Rejection

She wanted you to not see her as friend. Don't ask her this. Women are crazy. They are not conscious of this.

2)Narcissism

I have women whom are friends who will show anger and suddenly act cute and ask for 'stupid' things just to get a response.

Zac

 

[Sub-Zero]

Bro, don't ever let a girl have your phone ever!!! Lock that shit, and tell all of them no.

 

[Troy]

Is it some random girl, or the insane one from your other thread? The answer is different depending on context.

The insane one! We took selfies after sex still naked and she was willing...despite her craziness I could at least look back at that day and smile because I worked hard to get to that stage. Probably it's understandable? Maybe but very disrespectful...she does shit without thinking...it's funny how the split second I take off the lock and leave she does what she wants. Sigh...I learn my lesson...also before any of you go through this ( hopefully not ) download a app to keep photos longer after they are deleted. I use " GT Trash ".

Also, she is very possessive: she also deleted 2 pics with me and two girls chilling in KFC . She tells me not to be with other girls or else she will kill herself, the girl, or me. Very shocking! I try to get away from her yet she keeps coming back to me like some freak. It's like I hold the keys to her life ( if so I want her to take them back and get far from me ). This morning I had to stop and think " how the hell did I get myself into this girl's fucked up life? Why did I have to meet her and find out all this problem so late? She is a pain in the ass.

Troy

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Troy,

The insane one! We took selfies after sex still naked and she was willing..

Can you give me link of the post on the insane girl that you met. I want to read it for reference, as well. Thanks!

Zac

 

[Troy]

Can you give me link of the post on the insane girl that you met. I want to read it for reference, as well. Thanks!

Does She Want Me As a Friend or Boyfriend?

And

LR: Fucked Her

 

[Man-O]

I'd have discarded her right away. When in doubt think what one with abundance would do?; He'd eject her right away without question. The girl is gung-ho. You take action and show consequences to people who trash on your bounds, be it privacy, belongings or personality. If you let it be you end up with a bruised self esteem and people who think they can do what they want, unless you got some purpose with it like Jesus.

 

[Troy]

Jesus Christ, dude. I wish I could ban you from posting about that girl, which is probably why nobody lets me be an admin on their forums .

None of our advice matters. She's a dangerous psycho and since you know that, you have nobody to blame but yourself for continued interaction with her. All I can do is hope that you stop posting about micro interactions with her when the only problem is that you still let her anywhere near you.

These interactions should be a cautionary tale to any other guy who ignores my Cluster B article--there's a reason that I still believe it's the most important thing I've ever done in the seduction community.

Troy, if you haven't read it yet, I highly encourage you to do so. I used to get involved with psychos too (though not as bad as the chick you post about). My life has been indescribably better since I stopped putting my dick in crazy.

Damn I felt that! You are right. I need hard rules!!I'll finally stop posting about her now because she is bringing no happiness. The good thing about all this is that for any other girl I meet I would know how to censor them and realize their level of craziness early on.. Promise I'll NEVER TALK about this chick again. You say ban me from posting about her, I say BAN HER FUCK from getting in my 10 metre circle.

Guy's I'm sincerely sorry about all this crap with this chick, she isn't worth it. I WILL HAVE TO PUBLICLY INSULT HER ( AGAIN ) FOR HER TO LEAVE ME ALONE. If she wants to kill herself because I'm ignoring her and other girls giving me attention, then she MAY. I ALREADY TOLD HER to fuck off and she keeps coming on my horizon. I avoid her at school and she asks mutual friends about me and show up at those places I usually go in hopes of seeing me. She talks to me even though I don't want to talk. She walks beside me even when I stopped looking at her. She is a pest, a VERY VERY big PEST I wish could vanish. Yesterday she came to me with some bs that I didn't want to hear and even though I wasn't talking she continued blabbing.

I don't know what she wants from me. And I can't give her. I've ignored her, told her to fuck off and stay away and guess what? SHE STILL STICKS AROUND.

Finally I'll close this topic ( and shut the fuck up ) I'm sorry dudes I didn't mean to annoy anybody. The next thing I can think to do is get the police put a restraining order on that bitch. SHE NEEDS TO KEEP HER DISTANCE FROM ME. SORRY AGAIN GUY'S.

Troy

 

[ray_zorse]

I would not publicly insult her or tell her to fuck off. She is reaction-seeking and this would add fuel to the fire. Nor would I act butthurt and awkward, this makes me look weak. Be casual towards her -- maybe acknowledge her with a nod or whatever but a neutral facial expression. Try to refuse eye contact as much as possible and be talking to someone else if at all possible. If she addresses you directly, glance over briefly and make a noncommittal response such as "yeah", "nah", "I don't know", "not much", "sometime", "next time", "I'll see" et cetera, you get the idea. If she resorts to crazy stuff to get your attention, such as passing letters to you or putting them in your bag or whatever, be firm in saying "no" or "don't embarrass me" or "take this back" but otherwise ignore her. Also if she interrupts a conversation or anything else you are doing, try to ignore her completely (as if she did not exist) until you have finished, and then do as described.
Ray

 

[Troy]

Do not return texts or phone calls ever with her. No matter what she says. She will move on and probably dramatically. Ignore that too and do not worry about what she does.

Ok bud! She whatsapped me this morning saying " good morning babes " and I read the message and haven't replied...and I won't reply...seriously. What I'm getting is that I should act neutral and uninterested towards her. So ignore her calls and messages and when I see her at school just a head nod and I'm on my way.

Be casual towards her -- maybe acknowledge her with a nod or whatever but a neutral facial expression. Try to refuse eye contact as much as possible and be talking to someone else if at all possible. If she addresses you directly, glance over briefly and make a noncommittal response such as "yeah", "nah", "I don't know", "not much", "sometime", "next time", "I'll see" et cetera, you get the idea. If she resorts to crazy stuff to get your attention, such as passing letters to you or putting them in your bag or whatever, be firm in saying "no" or "don't embarrass me" or "take this back" but otherwise ignore her. Also if she interrupts a conversation or anything else you are doing, try to ignore her completely (as if she did not exist) until you have finished, and then do as described.

I tried this before but didn't stick with it for more than a day....reason being is it didn't have a instant effect on her. But Ray, you seem to know your way well on here so I'll stick with this plan and hope it works sooner rather than later. She went to the extreme of borrowing my friends phones and texting me ( stalker ) and I replied. Then she would say " hey this is Malika " and I'd ignore her again. I told her best friend ( Shantai ) who is also my friend to not lend Malika her phone to text me....it hasn't worked...so I'll going to try something else. Ignore texts from Shantai's phone during school time when Malika might be the one texting and talk to Shantai in the evenings when I know she will have her phone.

This is why you never put your dick in crazy.

From now on I'll live by this rule. Drexel, you've been right all along, and I'm sorry if these shit posts annoyed you. There isn't anything more to say, I've gotten all the advice and it's up to me to apply it ( which I started doing religiously this morning ).

If I ever meet a crazy chick again I'll know what to do and I won't even post on any of these girls ( hopefully I don't meet any more ). Thanks again guys! Lesson Learnt: Avoid crazy chicks, even if they are giving free pussy.


Troy

 

[irish-armour]

FML lads where do i start,well I've never seen anything like this lad troys threads there from a different world lol,i don't know whether laugh,cry or cringe

will give ya credit for getting the pump off her troy no matter how angry it seemed it went down

just ignore that chick best you can she will get boarded

start to line up the next lay,try make this one a lil smooth


pierce

 

[Troy]

FML lads where do i start,well I've never seen anything like this lad troys threads there from a different world lol,i don't know whether laugh,cry or cringe

I have heard a similar line when I said this to even her best friend without letting her know who I was speaking about. Damn everyone I said this to said they felt weird emotions: they didn't know if to pity me, laugh, cry, nothing. They were just confused. Way up I would have posted more but I already got the answer : MOVE ON FROM THIS CRAZY CHICK. What I have said is a tiny piece of the entire story ( don't worry I won't say it). Imagine what you'd think if I said EVERYTHING?

How did I even meet this girl? What a load of crap to the eyes and ears.

Drexel thanks for the website. It's loaded with article's to give far more advice than I'll need, lol since I know what to do before some men who end up marrying these chicks. By the way I have a better story to tell: I have another lay with a more positive gal. Her name is Amanda, and guess what? Malika was the one who introduced me to her and I sure am glad I listened to Ray and stopped dismissing Malika. She gave me a start and she told her friend of my prowess and I have to give thanks for that despite her bs.

I'll get the report up on LR:Fucked Her by Wednesday (school is taking all my time lately).


Troy