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drewc94

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This story takes place over the course of 4 days and is the fastest I've moved with a day game girl as to this date...
Recently I started working at my town's local mall and last Friday I got the number of one of the cute girls who was working at a kiosk.

-Friday:
We made eye contact as I was walking to the food court and we both gave each other a little half smile/smirk. I get my food and position myself in her line of sight so she can check me out, which I catch her doing a few times. As I finish eating I walked up to her and with a skeptical look on my face said "Do I know you from somewhere? You look familiar and I can't figure out why."

Honestly I'd never seen this girl in my life but that's one of my favorite lines to use when I can't think of anything else. She played along great and we rattled off where we're from, jobs we worked, blah blah blah, can't come up with anywhere we could possibly know each other. I say "Huh, maybe just a familiar looking face then. Well anyways, I'm Drew, nice to meet you." She introduces herself and I ask her how long she's worked in the mall and how she liked it there then told her I was curious because it was my first time in retail and I just started at one of the stores.

After small talking about that I asked if she was going to school/what for and then deep dived her asking why she was going for that, if it was something she has always wanted to do, etc. We talked for about 4 minutes and she was giving a few signals that she was interested (eye contact, playing with hair, smiles, etc.) so I cut it off saying "Hey I need to get back to work but you seem interesting and I don't really know anyone else who works in the mall, we should grab a bite sometime when we're both on break." She agrees and I have her put her number in my phone...

About 4 hours later when I get off work I text her "Cool meeting you earlier Erika. Hope you didn't get cussed out today. haha" (She talked about how a lady cussed her out a couple days ago when we talked earlier; kiosk life sounds rough lol) she texts back almost immediately saying she had a good day and asks me how mine was.. She continues the conversation every time it hits a dip and texts back pretty quickly every time. At some point that night I tell her to add me on snapchat to start building compliance. She does pretty much immediately. (I'm thinking "this girl is pretty cute and has a bangin' body, there's no way she doesn't options. Shit, this girl must dig me.") After she adds me she asks what I'm up to and seems much more invested in the conversation. I tease her that I'm about to "Netflix and chill" and tease her the rest of the night with subtle sexual innuendos, texting back about every 20 minutes or so then at some point I pass out.

-Saturday:
I text her in the morning saying I crashed out and she teases me saying I can't hang (dope, this one's got a sense of humor). I tell her that she has a sense of humor and I like that then I compliment her that she seems more mature for her age and open minded. She says she gets that a lot and we talked about that frame for a couple texts. It felt like a high point in the conversation to ask her out so I tell her we should grab a bite on Tuesday since I'll be working at the mall that day. She accepts and we plan to meet up at my favorite burger place after I'm off work that day. I tell her I'm going to my 2nd job and to have a good day.

-Sunday:
She texts me in the morning saying she passed out at like 10 and that she was the one who couldn't hang last night. I text her back about an hour later and call her a grandma/ tease her some more. She texts me back and I don't reply for like 10 hours. When I do text back it's like 9pm and tell her I was busy and that I hope she had a good day at work. She tells me about her day a bit then I tell her I'm going to sleep because I have school tomorrow. I tell her I hope she has a good rest of her night and pass out.

Monday I don't text her at all.
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Tuesday:
Today it's Tuesday and she texts me this morning with "Good morning, hope you have a good day." I reply back a few hours later with "Good morning, hope you do too. Working today?" She says yes, then after a few texts back in forth to not seem so eager I send her "Still on for 6 today?" She says yes and I tell her it might be closer to 6 30 to be on the safe side. She says that's fine then we meet up at 6 30 at the burger place...

Okay so at the burger joint we talk about her pretty much the whole time. Mainly deep diving about a trip to Texas she had, the mindset of being open minded and so positive for her age (She's 18 but I felt like I was talking to a 24 year old based on her mindset), a few chase frames, traveling and adventures she's had, what she wants to do as a career/why, some qualifying questions, and disqualified myself as the boyfriend role based on my busy schedule (2 jobs and full time school). Any baiting conversation topic I threw out for her to ask more about me though either went over her head, or she didn't really care to know. Normally I would think a girl isn't that interested because she wasn't taking the clear opportunites I'd give her to get to know me better but I just assume it's because she's young and didn't catch them. I sprinkled little things about myself and used self deprecation to build comfort and attainability.

The whole time I was lightly touching her throughout the conversation, she was giggling like a little girl, playing with her hair and we have some deep eye contact. Then when the conversation topics went a little stale after about 45 minutes and it's getting dark, she busts out lip balm and slyly bites her lip but clearly makes it noticeable. I get the hint and ask her if she's doing anything after this to which she says she has no plans. Then I tell her "come on, lets go on an adventure" and lead her out to my car..

We get in my car and she asks where we're going so I say I know of a chill little spot about 5 miles away. (Wish I had my own place, that line would've be killer, but sadly I'm living with my parents until I move to So Cal so my place is out of the question) We pull up to a park and she starts laughing so I tell her that I bet I can beat her to the swings and we dead sprint to the swings. I felt like a kid again and I could tell she did too, it was great. As we get off the swings I give her a hug and tell her she was a good sport but I definitely won the race. Then we locked eyes during the hug and I say "You're pretty fucking cool" and she says I am too. We start kissing immediately after this then I sit down on a part of the playground while she sits on my lap. I say "and you're pretty fucking sexy too"; she's loving it. We start talking and kissing more and I'm grabbing her ass then she bites my lip and says "I'm a very sexual person as well" in a way that's implying that she sees I am. I reply, "you can tell I am?" and she nods yes. She's qualifying herself as sexual, and qualifying me as the lover role. Game on..

I turn her around to where she's straddling me, we're making out and she's grinding on me, then I pick her up by her ass and put her on her back on the playground. I keep making out with her, start dry humping her and massaging her tits. After a minute or so she's breathing heavy and I start taking off her pants. No objection. I start rubbing her pussy through her panties. No objection. Once I start taking her panties off she says "Shit, you might not want to do that right now" I reply with "Why not?" and she busts out this little fucking number "I'm on my period right now"..

Can't say I've ever gotten that objection before especially after everything that led up to that moment and I had no clue what to do. haha

So I got stumped and started fucking up. She was digging my dominance before so I told her it would be hot if she gave me head on this playground and that I wanted her to. (It was a pretty ballsy request but I didn't want to go home with blue balls. haha) She replied with "I don't normally suck guys' dicks the first time I hangout with them." (OKAY BITCH BUT YOU WERE DOWN TO FUCK LIKE 5 MINUTES AGO! lmao) I kinda laughed at this and go back to making out with her. (Guess I'm going home with blue balls...) No big deal, I'll live to fuck another day. I act pretty much completely unfazed and we go back to talking and stay on the topic of sex for a good 20 minutes. At this point she's telling me crazy places and stories about when she's had sex and I share a few of mine.

I probably fucked up there because it felt like I was qualifying myself rather than using sex talk to get her horny since we both knew nothing was going to happen this night. At this point she goes from warm to kind of aloof, which makes me wonder if either the period thing was a LMR line that I failed to recognize, or if talking about my own sex stories turned her off because she saw it as qualifying myself and, in all honesty, came off pretty incongruent with the sexy lover vibe I was giving her the rest of the night.. I end the night by telling her I have a buddies 21st bday dinner to go to at 9 30 (which I talked about when we were eating) and that I'd better take her back. The drive back was kinda quiet and when we hugged and said goodbye I could tell the vibe was different..

Don't see myself being able to have another chance with this one in the future because I failed to bed her the first time I had the opportunity to, but hey, when a girl says she's on her period what can you do? Then I'm pretty sure the last 20 minutes of us hanging out I repeatedly put my foot in my mouth and fucked it up. Oh well, lesson learned.

All in all I think this was a great experience for me because I moved fast and felt like I ran some really tight game on this one so I'm proud of that; it's becoming more natural.

Thanks for reading, I hope somebody was able to take something away from this interaction. And of course any feedback from someone more experienced than I am on what they would have done would be helpful!

-DC
 

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Re: FR: girl from the mall story

Drew,

Nice job pulling her to the playground. I have a couple of comments. I am surprised you got away with some much texting and didn't get boyfriended. The rule is to keep the texting to a minimum. Read Chase's article on this and some of the others comments. Regarding her being on her period just tell her you don't care and just continue taking her pants off. It may have been a shit test which this would have taken care of. If it is the truth she may stop you or she may not care either. You will then just have to be prepared to clean yourself up.

BDSC
 

Fuck This

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Re: FR: girl from the mall story

I think you are still in a good position. Give her a week or so, and get some good logistics ironclad. You want a good time block of alone time to seal the deal.

Depending on your time frame it could be a simple picnic in the park. yeah the vibe cooled off, mainly because she thought she turned you off with the period issue.
 

Chase

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Drew-

Argh. This one was beautifully well done right up until this point:

drewc94 said:
Once I start taking her panties off she says "Shit, you might not want to do that right now" I reply with "Why not?" and she busts out this little fucking number "I'm on my period right now"..

Can't say I've ever gotten that objection before especially after everything that led up to that moment and I had no clue what to do. haha

So I got stumped and started fucking up.

Here's the way it should've gone:


  • Her: Shit, you might not want to do that right now.

    You: Why not?

    Her: I'm on my period right now.

    You: [devilish smile] *shrug* [peel her panties off anyway and get to it]

She was down. She just wanted to warn you the red tides were up before you put your ship to the sea.

drewc94 said:
She replied with "I don't normally suck guys' dicks the first time I hangout with them." (OKAY BITCH BUT YOU WERE DOWN TO FUCK LIKE 5 MINUTES AGO! lmao)

She was, but you misread her warning as an objection/rejection, and she misread your backing off as disgust/rejection.

At this point, she's viewing it as you saying, "Eh, I'm not interested in shagging a girl on her period. Why don't you just blow me instead?"

Not so enticing.

drewc94 said:
At this point she's telling me crazy places and stories about when she's had sex and I share a few of mine.

She was qualifying herself to you; it's a defensive move.

Sex didn't happen, you're both a little smarting, she's feeling self-conscious and like she's just been rejected, so she talks about other guys who've banged her to reassert her value and make sure she knows that just because you rejected her doesn't mean other guys did - she's desired, men want her, and she gets sex.

drewc94 said:
I probably fucked up there because it felt like I was qualifying myself rather than using sex talk to get her horny since we both knew nothing was going to happen this night. At this point she goes from warm to kind of aloof, which makes me wonder if either the period thing was a LMR line that I failed to recognize, or if talking about my own sex stories turned her off because she saw it as qualifying myself and, in all honesty, came off pretty incongruent with the sexy lover vibe I was giving her the rest of the night.. I end the night by telling her I have a buddies 21st bday dinner to go to at 9 30 (which I talked about when we were eating) and that I'd better take her back. The drive back was kinda quiet and when we hugged and said goodbye I could tell the vibe was different..

There's not really a good way to recover once she feels like she has to qualify herself as sexually desirable to you. You qualifying yourself in turn (as you did here) is just confusing to her and feels like you're competing with her; it totally doesn't make sense for the guy who rejected her for sex to have to compete with her on sexual conquests though. It feels off.

One thing you might try if you find yourself with a girl qualifying her sexcapades to you after you've accidentally rejected her for sex is to notice what's going on and get suddenly compassionate / affectionate: "Hey, come here. Stop qualifying yourself. I think you're sexy as hell." She'll probably resist, and have to, to build her ego back up, but just continue being warm and affectionate and you may be able to recover from her going into auto-rejection.

drewc94 said:
Don't see myself being able to have another chance with this one in the future because I failed to bed her the first time I had the opportunity to, but hey, when a girl says she's on her period what can you do? Then I'm pretty sure the last 20 minutes of us hanging out I repeatedly put my foot in my mouth and fucked it up. Oh well, lesson learned.

Most likely you won't hear from her again, no. You had a perfect seduction and a perfect date, that ended with her feeling spurned for sex and then confused when she tried to qualify herself and you seemingly began to compete with her. When you get a bizarre ending like this (and every guy does it sooner or later... usually more than once), it's usually too weird for the girl to want to do anything with you again and she'll just avoid you after that to avoid having her ego hurt any further.

Also:

"when a girl says she's on her period what can you do?"

Bang her anyway?

That's what I do. :)

drewc94 said:
All in all I think this was a great experience for me because I moved fast and felt like I ran some really tight game on this one so I'm proud of that; it's becoming more natural.

Thanks for reading, I hope somebody was able to take something away from this interaction. And of course any feedback from someone more experienced than I am on what they would have done would be helpful!

-DC

Absolutely, Drew; right up until she threw you with the period comment, you were performed flawlessly.

I realize it can be frustrating to realize you were right there, then blew it, but the silver lining is I bet you'll be a lot more aggressive the next time a girl brings up her period!

Chase
 

drewc94

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Chase,
Thanks for the compliment and advice!
I especially liked what you said to do when a girl starts qualifying herself to you, I never thought to call her out on it in a warm way. When you think about it, it's actually kind of cute if you know what she's doing and why. haha
It's been a couple weeks since this post and this story actually has a happy ending... after a week or so of light persistence I ended up getting with this girl tonight ;)
I'll be posting a LR tomorrow to tell how it went down.
Cheers! - Drew
 
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