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Girl gets angry with me for using the word "Sensual".

Maxxz

Space Monkey
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Okay fellas what's up with this picture, and maybe some can help decipher this girl's action to me.

So I meet this girl a couple of weeks ago, chart her up lightly get her number and bounce. I hit her up later by text and try to get her out, she declines and states she's not comfortable dating guys right now and she's just focusing on herself but we could be friends. I tell her it'd be hard for me to be friends with her because I find her too "sensual".

Next thing I know she responds with an explosive text saying if this' the way I feel about her she should never have giving me her number and she'll like to stop talking to me because she's not that type of girl, and she was uncomfortable with the conversation.

I was like uh? What the fuck? I mean I figured things was dead with her anyways, when she said she just wanted to be friends but why would she explode on me because I said I found her "sensual? Was this somekind of anti slut defense, is she nutso or what's going on here?

I did respond to her text saying she misunderstood my statement and I wasn't making any judgments about her. And that's where we left things.

My question then is why would she respond that way? Any experienced guys out here deal with a situation like this? I won't hit this girl up again cause I don't really care. Just wanted to know why she'd respond that way. Everyone can chime in.
 

Franco

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Maxxz,

Yeah, sounds like anti-slut defense and auto-rejection combined, bud. Basically, it sounds like she took the statement as, "we can't be friends because I see you as too much of a sex object rather than a person."

It was a bit overboard considering you used the word "sensual" instead of "sexual," but it sounds like the girl was already in a form of auto-rejection anyway, so the statement set off her anti-slut alarms and caused her to respond harshly. It happens occasionally when you're learning.

On to the next one!

- Franco
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Maxxz

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Thanks Franco for the response. Figured as much it was anti-slut defense and or auto rejection.

Anyways, on to the next one as stated!
 
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