Hey again mates 
Today i want to share an interaction i had with a girl, which "teleported" downhill (that meaning i didn't see it go down even for one second) and it's still scratching my brain because i have no ideea what and where i did wrong.
Without further ado: Story time. (SPOILER! It's quite long)
So, i met this girl while practicing with my band at the studio. Apparently she's the ex of the other band's guitarist and was hanging around the rehersals. I was really well-groomed that day, because i had a date later, so i made a pretty good impression (or 85% confident at least that i did). She simply sprung out of her chais and instantly gave me the warmest hug i've had in weeks. I'm sure if i went for a kiss then, it wouldn't have bothered her.
Anyway, practice goes on as usual and when it's time to leave i see her fighting with her ex. I tought it was better not to interrupt, since i've just met both of them and so i depart. when i finally get home i go to my computer and i see that i have a friend request from her. I accept and she instantly sends me a text asking me what's up. We start some small talk and, right out of the blue, she tells me "You know what? We made my ex jealous :3 you're great!". At that point, i answer "Oh, cool" and then proceed to other topics. I get her phone number, smoothly disqualify myself as a boyfrend etc.
The next day i asked her to come at my place to boil some wine and she immediately agreed. She called me 5 minutes later asking if she could bring a (girl)friend. I said that i was hoping for the two of us to hang out and what not, but she begged and... i had no ideea how to ddisarm her, but she was super into me so i said ok.
These 2 come to my place. My girl huggs me and hardly lets me go, also biting my neck when her firend wasn't looking. "She really wants it!" i told myself. "But she's with her friend..." (kinda ugly fatty btw, but surprisingly cute face). I think her friend knew what's up, because she was obviously trying hard not to pay attention at us, so i took my chances and silently pushed my girl agains the wall and kissed her soflty. When she went for more, i said, "not now" in a sexy voice and with the sexual look and all that.
When we went upstairs, my girl told her friend to come up with us and watch vids on my computer ("Shit. F**k. No!"). "Nah, i'm cool, you go have fun, i want to bang those drums over there!" (Praise the Pick-Up God for that!) "Don't make too much noise, have fun too!" i said. Then upstairs i did my "thing", escalated quickly, put my hand inside her panties, finger her good and then she says "we should stop". *Hmm only verbal "ressistance", she actually pulls me in... nah she wants it!* getting super-passionate and then i try to pull her pants off, at which point she pulls them back on instantly and says "No seriously we should stop... let's get back to my friend." *damnit*. And that was it. The next day i found out she was a virgin... But wait, there's more!
2 days pass in which we sext like crazy, she tells me how much i excite her, how horny is she and how she can't wait to come back to my place. After these 2 days, i finnish my classes and i go to meet her in a bar (my folks were home so i couldn't make a move right then). I spent 15 minutes waiting her and i call her to see if she's coming. "we're on our way, be there in 5!" ... "Wait, we?" "Yeah, me and my ex." (they remained friends afterall). They come and she darts straight to me hugging me and sitting so close to me it looked like she was sitting in my lap, completely ignoring her ex. He gives her a jealous text which she shows me when he goes to the bathroom. Then he takes off to meet with some other friends who would join us. I take advantage of his leave and escalate a bit with the girl, she tells me she likes it and i go futher a bit, i kiss her, massage her thigs, then her crotch and then i say "that would be enough for now" then i assume a bored laid back pose and she bites my neck, then goes back to texting someone, just as her ex enters. Half an hour passes, then i take my leave, she says she goes to the bathroom, follows me and kisses me and says goodbye.
The next day i invite her over, she says she has a cut or sth on her foot and she can't walk. I say ok, get well. that evning i hit the bar to meet some firends and there she was at the table, just about to leave. She comes to hug me and gives me a peck on the cheek. "How did you get well so soon sweetie? Are you Wolverine's sibling or sth?" "haha, no, i made my bandages really good and it didn't hurt anymore " *if you say so...*.
Next day i hit the bar (again) and there she was (again), but this time... she was extremly cold and aloof. She barely said hi and pretty much made it possible to keep at least one person between us. Plus, the King Dick in the circle, a really good friend of mine (for some stupid reason i don't understand, we're friends...) has one major drawback. He loves, but LOVES to engage in witty remarks with me when there are girls around. and honestly, i'm more of a beta male there, but he's definately alpha and girls tend to like his wits more than my sarcastic or nonverbal "responses". And that was the case here.
Lastly, new year passed and i called her to tell her "Happy 2015!". She was extremely cold:
Never heard from her again (nor that i care too much either).
So... at first i tought se used me to make her ex jealous or sth, but 1)she broke up with him in the first place and 2)She barely talks to him aswell.
Conclusion: I'm confused. anyone has an oppinion?
Also sorry for writing all that much You have my gratitude if you actually read the whole thing!
Cheers,
Vlad
Today i want to share an interaction i had with a girl, which "teleported" downhill (that meaning i didn't see it go down even for one second) and it's still scratching my brain because i have no ideea what and where i did wrong.
Without further ado: Story time. (SPOILER! It's quite long)
So, i met this girl while practicing with my band at the studio. Apparently she's the ex of the other band's guitarist and was hanging around the rehersals. I was really well-groomed that day, because i had a date later, so i made a pretty good impression (or 85% confident at least that i did). She simply sprung out of her chais and instantly gave me the warmest hug i've had in weeks. I'm sure if i went for a kiss then, it wouldn't have bothered her.
Anyway, practice goes on as usual and when it's time to leave i see her fighting with her ex. I tought it was better not to interrupt, since i've just met both of them and so i depart. when i finally get home i go to my computer and i see that i have a friend request from her. I accept and she instantly sends me a text asking me what's up. We start some small talk and, right out of the blue, she tells me "You know what? We made my ex jealous :3 you're great!". At that point, i answer "Oh, cool" and then proceed to other topics. I get her phone number, smoothly disqualify myself as a boyfrend etc.
The next day i asked her to come at my place to boil some wine and she immediately agreed. She called me 5 minutes later asking if she could bring a (girl)friend. I said that i was hoping for the two of us to hang out and what not, but she begged and... i had no ideea how to ddisarm her, but she was super into me so i said ok.
These 2 come to my place. My girl huggs me and hardly lets me go, also biting my neck when her firend wasn't looking. "She really wants it!" i told myself. "But she's with her friend..." (kinda ugly fatty btw, but surprisingly cute face). I think her friend knew what's up, because she was obviously trying hard not to pay attention at us, so i took my chances and silently pushed my girl agains the wall and kissed her soflty. When she went for more, i said, "not now" in a sexy voice and with the sexual look and all that.
When we went upstairs, my girl told her friend to come up with us and watch vids on my computer ("Shit. F**k. No!"). "Nah, i'm cool, you go have fun, i want to bang those drums over there!" (Praise the Pick-Up God for that!) "Don't make too much noise, have fun too!" i said. Then upstairs i did my "thing", escalated quickly, put my hand inside her panties, finger her good and then she says "we should stop". *Hmm only verbal "ressistance", she actually pulls me in... nah she wants it!* getting super-passionate and then i try to pull her pants off, at which point she pulls them back on instantly and says "No seriously we should stop... let's get back to my friend." *damnit*. And that was it. The next day i found out she was a virgin... But wait, there's more!
2 days pass in which we sext like crazy, she tells me how much i excite her, how horny is she and how she can't wait to come back to my place. After these 2 days, i finnish my classes and i go to meet her in a bar (my folks were home so i couldn't make a move right then). I spent 15 minutes waiting her and i call her to see if she's coming. "we're on our way, be there in 5!" ... "Wait, we?" "Yeah, me and my ex." (they remained friends afterall). They come and she darts straight to me hugging me and sitting so close to me it looked like she was sitting in my lap, completely ignoring her ex. He gives her a jealous text which she shows me when he goes to the bathroom. Then he takes off to meet with some other friends who would join us. I take advantage of his leave and escalate a bit with the girl, she tells me she likes it and i go futher a bit, i kiss her, massage her thigs, then her crotch and then i say "that would be enough for now" then i assume a bored laid back pose and she bites my neck, then goes back to texting someone, just as her ex enters. Half an hour passes, then i take my leave, she says she goes to the bathroom, follows me and kisses me and says goodbye.
The next day i invite her over, she says she has a cut or sth on her foot and she can't walk. I say ok, get well. that evning i hit the bar to meet some firends and there she was at the table, just about to leave. She comes to hug me and gives me a peck on the cheek. "How did you get well so soon sweetie? Are you Wolverine's sibling or sth?" "haha, no, i made my bandages really good and it didn't hurt anymore
" *if you say so...*.Next day i hit the bar (again) and there she was (again), but this time... she was extremly cold and aloof. She barely said hi and pretty much made it possible to keep at least one person between us. Plus, the King Dick in the circle, a really good friend of mine (for some stupid reason i don't understand, we're friends...) has one major drawback. He loves, but LOVES to engage in witty remarks with me when there are girls around. and honestly, i'm more of a beta male there, but he's definately alpha and girls tend to like his wits more than my sarcastic or nonverbal "responses". And that was the case here.
Lastly, new year passed and i called her to tell her "Happy 2015!". She was extremely cold:
- "Happy new year sweetie! "
"Thx... you too"
"whatcha doin?"
"sitting"
"umm... okay"
"Listen, if you want me to come <<hang out>> or something, i don't want to"
"Honestly i just called to welcome you into the new year. Nobody said anything about you coming over."
"Okay then bye!"
*ends call*
Never heard from her again (nor that i care too much either).
So... at first i tought se used me to make her ex jealous or sth, but 1)she broke up with him in the first place and 2)She barely talks to him aswell.
Conclusion: I'm confused. anyone has an oppinion?
Also sorry for writing all that much
You have my gratitude if you actually read the whole thing!Cheers,
Vlad
