I'm kind of surprised there isn't a go-to article or forum topic on this. Approaching a group of girls properly is something I haven't been able to really figure out. I think the best way to tackle the problems I'm encountering is to list them.
1. Approach the girl you're attracted to directly. I would think this gives the "man who knows what he wants" vibe, but I've found that a lot of times a girl's friends will act as cock blocks out of jealousy. And that's assuming they don't turn you down outright to begin with.
2. Approach the group broadly. This is what I've been advised to do and I respect it in the sense that you acknowledge everyone and don't come off so strong. But at the same time there's this "wide net" quality to it that seems desperate to me. You know, you don't want a particular girl in the group, you'll take any one of em.
These are the primary situations I find myself in and have no idea how to approach in a smooth way. Not having a plan of attack greatly reduces my options. Also, given where I'm at now I'm flying solo & wingmen aren't exactly an option. Thank you for any and all tips.
1. Approach the girl you're attracted to directly. I would think this gives the "man who knows what he wants" vibe, but I've found that a lot of times a girl's friends will act as cock blocks out of jealousy. And that's assuming they don't turn you down outright to begin with.
2. Approach the group broadly. This is what I've been advised to do and I respect it in the sense that you acknowledge everyone and don't come off so strong. But at the same time there's this "wide net" quality to it that seems desperate to me. You know, you don't want a particular girl in the group, you'll take any one of em.
These are the primary situations I find myself in and have no idea how to approach in a smooth way. Not having a plan of attack greatly reduces my options. Also, given where I'm at now I'm flying solo & wingmen aren't exactly an option. Thank you for any and all tips.
