Girl has been dating guy... But shows interest in me

[Mr_pringlez]

Okay... So i had a party last friday and i am not they shy type... She comes over by herself which was a pleasant surprise because id much rather game her one on one than have to deal with her friends as well..the party gets started and we start playing beerpong against my boy and his gf we end up winning and Things were going well eye contact was there.. Definitely flirting with each other.. Shes sending me indicators of her interest...and during the next game couldnt seem to pry her off her phone and get her to focus on the game... Whatever i can carry the team... I bring us back in the game and shes starting to wake up from her phone...we end up losing that game... And after she tells me "your gonna hate me, i have to go." Me knowing exactly whats going on in my head im thinking shes gotta guy that she ditched for this... So no pressure i just let her go without complaining or being clingy or whatever im not like that anyhow...she tells me to walk her to her car so as were walking she tells me to help her walk off the sidewalk so she wouldnt fall in her heels... Im thinking i should try and make a move.... I totally bitched out and didnt pull one... Shortly after she texted me back "i feel so stupid for coming back but im probly coming back" ... So me thinking ok mustve did something right i call her and confirm and tell her to drive back safetly as shes buzzed from playing beerpong....30 min pass and i text her if shes ok did something go wrong on her way back... She texts me "no sorry i just came home"....in my head im like ok if she text me in the morning that means she really did go home and shes sincere and sorry... And if she doesnt text than she prolly met up with old boy...what do u know she actually text back so we exchanged a few text back and forth.... And even the next day after that a few more exchanges... My question is its been about 3 days since i contacted her as im not trying to come off as clingy because i would really like to date this girl... When should i contact her again? When is my window closing? Any advice...

 

[Mr_pringlez]

This was one day after that night, im the text on the right

 

[Eternity]

Sigh. You are behaving like a classic beta male or nice guy to put it lightly. It is clear you have put her on a pedestal of adoration and cling to the idea that she is a good girl or caring girl whose your companionship she seeks. That she is not capable of slutting around with other guys other than her b.f, or because she spends some time with you, you are the only guy she is talking/flirting/ fucking? She probably is and from what you described here she sounds like an: a) attention whore or b)tease. Perhaps you were right and she was looking for some dick that night but you hesitated, escalations windows missed. Chase advice on moving fast is golden because it's true, you snooze you loose. You had a chance when you were walking with her to make out and make your intentions clear, if she declined dump her and leave, if she accepted you have a green light to fuck.

Reread those txts she sent to u and u to her and analyze them for a while. Notice her replies make her sound like she's the man, and your "drive home safely" replies hint of something a woman perhaps might write. You also stated yourself as a friend in those txts, bad move from the get go. You are not her friend, period. She's a dirty slut whose 3 holes you want ravish till your dick is raw from fucking her too much. This mentality is something it is crucial to possess if you want to fuck party girls, shit especially party girls as they are notorious for being sluts as potheads usually are too. You waited 3 days for a response and still no answer? Sorry bro, out sight, out of mind. She probably forgot about you or you are not someone she is intrigued by, not yet anyway. My take is this chick is lost due to not moving fast and weak txting.
What I wrote above sounds harsh, perhaps even cruel but it's for your own good because if u don't know you will cling to false hope like i did once, similar to what you wrote here. Your homework for next time is to read the articles on txting on my "tips and tricks thread". They work, a different style but effective. Keep browsing the thread, lots of useful articles on various issues regarding game also.

 

[Mr_pringlez]

In response i totally agree with u on the first paragraph u wrote... I have lost my alpha touch... I lost my touch and am pressing the restart button in my game...but in response to the three day thing i think u read wrong... Or i wrote it wrong... I have stopped trying to text her since this past sunday... Dont wanna put myself out there as clingy... Just givin the communication a break between us two... What can i do to flip this around and ravish those three holes is my question?

 

[Eternity]

Set u a meet via txt. Not txting like a bff who cares for herfucking feelings. Something like: "sup". Then after her dumb reply: " drinks at xxxx, fri?" She will either say yes or no. Maybe=No. Yes, meet her alone not with no fucking friends. Get her a bit buzzed, relaxed then innocently ask if she would like to smoke some green w/u at ur place and escalate to sex accordingly. Do not txt more than she txts you. Do not txt her immediately like a lovesick nice guy in the friendzone pining over her. If she says no or toys around by not txting u on a timely basis, next her and do not contact her again till she hits u up. When or if u prefer this methd to the above, go direct and ask her over to ur place with " come over, bring the weed". Flip the script on the slut and play her like putty on your hands. BTW, sounds like a slut. Do not date her. Pump and Dump the bitch, sounds like the cheating type...

 

[Mr_pringlez]

Lol she very well could be... Dont get me wrong its not like i dont know what to do.. I just need to get over the hump again...she smokes green but i dont however because of my job... But i can deffinately still pull that strategy you suggested off... I guess i just needed reassurance on when i hit her up next time it should be for chilling only not to bullshit over the phone and talk... Good insight... I banged a friend of hers down a few years back i was on the top of my game back than... I dont know what happend... Im in a recallibrating stage of my game i guess i really wanna get it pack down tight

 

[Eternity]

Run a jealousy plotline. If things are not going your way inquire strategically about the wherabouts of her friend. Something on the lines of; "Hey its been a while since I've seen xxx? Tell I said Hi, Good times That's if she doesn't respond well to your seductive charms u can hint at something more that happened with her friend and let her wondering about u the whole day. Sluts can be manipulated too, don't be discouraged