What do you guys do when you find out a girl that you hit it off well with has a boyfriend? Do you still set up dates to hang out with her to try to land her girl friends or do you move onto the next girl to set up dates right away?
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Although I don't have a lot of experience with this situation, what I do currently is just never mention boyfriend, never ask if she is single / available etc, just assume attraction and move forward. If she says she has boyfriend then I can go with some of these responses...
Ray
I'm keen to screw a girl with a boyfriend just for the reference experience but basically in my view it doesn't matter, she might have a bf and just never mention it, if she's attracted. According to Chase's ebook she'll sometimes bring up a bf at pull time, but apparently that's just the normal shit test and/or disclaimer so in the morning she can say "it's HIS fault! I told him I have a bf!". And, if you're escalating and she says something like "we shouldn't be doing this, I have a bf" then you just ignore what she says and check her actions, if she's actually pushing you off then stop of course.
Ray
If she says that shes got a bf, you can counter it with "already thinking of cheating on him?" But it depends on the girl and how much youve bonded, usually shes just testing to see if youll judge her. If shes got a bf try to offer qualities that he doesnt give her, cuz usually relationships fall into a routinish-boring shit so shes looking for excitement and fun and adventures and hot sex, dont qualify to be her bf, dont offer any advice or help, just have fun.