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Girl Sitting, Approach or not Approach?

Rhyme

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Recently, as finals have taken over the university grounds, the plazas, venues and such have been utterly empty, with a few girls walking here and there and some sitting down (floor, bench) reading their text books or texting.
This new environment has popped the question, is it appropriate to approach girls who are sitting down?
I'm a beginner and I have focused on day game and mostly approaching girls who are walking and standing, I have always considered that approaching sitting down girls (while me walking or standing) is not very comfortable. Am I wrong? If so, what is the best way to approach a girl that is sitting down?

Jaime
 

Smith

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Silly question, of course you should go talk to her ;)

Say "hello" with a smile to get her attention as you walk up to her, then sit down as you deliver your compliment. If they're not interested, they'll make it clear and you should respectfully walk away. Otherwise, girls sitting down are the easiest to engage.
 

Rhyme

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I like your attitude Smith.
 

Loser2Winner

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ya girls that are sitting are way easier to approach than walking.

a girl that is sitting is likely to stay seated.

a girl that is walking is likely to keep walking.
 

Rhyme

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Loser2Winner, that is basically my confusion, isn't that uncomfortable?
I remember Chase mentioning (I think is in the article How to be a Gentleman) that he lets the girl know she has an escape route and nobody is forcing her to stay there.

Besides, it seems to me that I'm giving too much effort in sitting down, don't you think?

Jaime
 

Rhyme

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Chase, I read the article, my doubts have wondered off!

:)

Jaime
 

Rhyme

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Chase-

I have successfully tried it... twice! Didn't actually get any numbers though and the second girl was older than me and auto-rejected me and made me feel horrible (she was one of those depressive/negative girls I recall from one of your articles... quite an experience that was actually!). I'm going to write it on my journal later this week as soon as I finish some reading and writing.
Anyway, at first when I approach it is very natural the girl doesn't feel weird (I mean, I don't feel weird), but as soon as I ask to sit down is where I feel kinda weird (like chasing)
I don't like asking, but it would feel even weirder if I just sat down. I tried to complement the approach with making her invest in return, like asking her to show me something.
Also, I tried to maintain eye contact only when she was looking at me.
What do you think?

Always,
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