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Girl texts after a year of no contact

ramshead

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So a girl I haven’t talked to in almost a year suddenly sent me a text but it wasn’t directed at me. She texted that if I can take her aunt an orange juice.

Lol that’s so random. A little back story we were dating for just over 6 months in 2019. We had stopped talking for a while she had insulted me so I gave her a soft next. She reached out and we went back to normal. She then said I was never going to change. By what she meant is that I was always aloof with her never texted her only to set up to meet. Only then I would give her attention and make her laugh and hook up but after that I would be MIA.

So she was tired of me not being the guy who would text her and she said we needed a break. I simply texted ok and she went crazy. She sent me a long text saying I’m an asshole blah blah. I never replied and suddenly a year later she sends me a random text lol

She was always cool but she’s in the past I have a couple girls I’m friends with benefits with but not sure if I should reply and see what happens

What do you guys think should I reply or not
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Will_V

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Are you democratizing your sexual interest? The only relevant question is whether you want her or not.
 

PalmaSailor

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She’s texted because she’s on her own and wants some attention and the dodgy text gives her plausible deniability
You’ve either got to reply and get her back on the rotation and bang her or ignore her completely.
If you ignore her completely she’ll still be there in the future, but if you do any half measures - ie start to chat to her but don’t bang her you'll blow it
 
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