Girl Trying to Escalate on Drive

[sdb]

Assuming you're taking a girl somewhere you won't be able to bed her (She may be aware of this or not). And while you're driving she starts grabbing your crotch, kissing neck, ect.

What's the best move? Pull over right away? Tell her you're taking her to "X" instead? (X having better logistics)

Also in the situation where a girl is groping your crotch and failing... Like she is grabbing outside your pants but not actually grabbing dick or balls, do you just let her bumble around until she figures it out?

 

[Mr.Rob]

What's the best move? Pull over right away? Tell her you're taking her to "X" instead? (X having better logistics)

Whatever you want to do here. The best move is to be decisive and make a decision of what the best course of action YOU want to take.

If you want to pull over on the side of the interstate and fuck her until a cop rolls up to see if you broke down then go for it. If you want to go to better logistics tell her to behave herself until you get there or she's going to be in trouble and get punished.

do you just let her bumble around until she figures it out?

No.

If you can place her hand how you want it and give her verbal instructions on what you like. At very least give her verbal instructions.

Good luck!

-Rob

 

[ray_zorse]

Mr.Rob is right.

Look up "compliance building" on the website. But basically how it works is YOU make all the decisions when you hangout, and she follows. If you allow her to lead, she starts to think of you as weak, and loses attraction for you.

This applies whatever you do, but doubly so in bed -- escalation = compliance basically. It's also a big kick -- I find I get much more hard through taking control and ordering her around the bedroom. I want a blowjob -> she gives me one. I want to eat pussy -> I do it. I want to masturbate while she pinches her nipples -> I order her to do that. I want to see her masturbating -> I order her to do that. I want to slap her or spank her -> I do so (but first I make sure she knows the code word, "red"). I want to fuck her arse -> I do so.

Especially for that last one, if you say "Can I fuck your arse? ... please?" she'll almost certainly say no. "Ewww! Gross! What do you take me for? ... In your dreams, haha" ... whereas if you just do it, she'll love you for it. Women require dominance in order to get turned on. Be gentle but forceful. And having committed to a course of action, persist like fuck until you get your way (this might take multiple sessions).

Ray