Girl trying to take dominance....

[girlsfollow]

This girl tries to take control frequently - she's trying to grab back dominance from me I can feel it - classic girls trick - she's trying to use sex to do so- I need to be really careful not to let her do this - any tips?

Been thinking laying back, backing off before the threshold and using chase frames might work..... The thing is she is very passive - if I don't initiate she wont do anything - and then if I do she uses it as a chance to display her ability to stop things (although obviously I broke through this last time). How do you persist in the face of resistance and initiate without loosing power?

one strategy she uses is to say we will do something before I get a chance to say it - its very subtle but she's managed to pull it off about 20% of the time - I think I'm going to keep not taking her seriously and then just escalate and finish it next time - I'm going to keep talk to a minimum - just close and these things evaporate I find

another thing she got in first was "I dont like to rush things" - classic, obviously I agreed with her, should have seen that one coming - any advice for keeping control with these strong willed dominant career driven girls?

 

[Little Jester]

"I don't like to rush things..."
"What do you like about going slow then? Is it... the foreplay you like?"

Ok this is space monkey advise of course. But I'd try to keep her on about the things she wants and I'd respect what she wants, but never agree, disagree or take orders from her. (I'd only agree if I really agree with something, but she has to ask for my opinion on the matter)

Hmm, that reminds me of that 4 different type of girls article on GC. She's obviously a TRex. I guess what I'm suggesting is TRin behaviour. Currently seems you're both playing out the TRex and that is causing the troubles. Question is, are you acting TRex and better off going back to your natural element, or will this remain a battle for power and hopefully she'll cave in at some point. Can't force the latter though.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/4-kin ... -should-go

 

[girlsfollow]

Just thought of another example she threw:

"you are going to make me dinner like a true gentleman" (in response to me saying I would help her)

I said something like: "nice try, we'll compromise and both help equally gentlewoman"

which she accepted...

but she's testing!

 

[girlsfollow]

Oh and some others:

"Lets go downstairs girlsfollow" - after she came and came back to being rational and I reinitiated - using my name! I quickly called her out on it, said "ohh is that your power voice, cute!"

another one

"you are fidgity" after I initiated intimacy twice during the film and was stroking her - I used freezeouts twice on her after she went too far - I sat back on the bed and didnt touch her - then after a few minutes told her to come to me - which she did...