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Before you jump to any conclusions, hear me out.
Met 2 girls (let's call em Rebecca and Sarah, they're roommates) last Saturday at a cool bar in town. They were both awesome and talkative. Caught them on the way to go talk to a friend they spotted, so the conversation was pretty short, probably about 5 minutes. I move on and approach other girls. Fast forward an hour and a half, I catch these girls on the way out of the bar. Sarah says they're leaving, but "maybe I'll see you around. Do you come here often?" and of course I went in for the phone number right away.
Next day Sarah texts me first, apologizing for "being rude and walking away" when I was talking to them. I won't bore you with the details, but I set up a date a few texts later with ease.
I FB creeped on Sarah later that day (go ahead, judge me) to ENSURE she was single before moving forward. Believe it or not, a girl I recently went on TWO dates with told me she had a boyfriend AFTER the fact. Some girls really don't get it. And Sarah's so single she posted a rant about how she's sick of being single just a few days before. Okay, it's on. She wants it.
Earlier tonight I squared up logistics with her- we're meeting at a cool bar near her place tomorrow. Now here's where it gets weird.
Sarah called me about 3 hours later and said she had an "awkward request." And this awkward request had to do with Rebecca. See, Rebecca met a guy on Tinder and has a date tomorrow. Apparently Rebecca is nervous about it (understandable, given the nature of a thing like Tinder and the fact that girls are generally more cautious), and they're both new to my city. As we all know, girls look after their friends. And Sarah asked if Rebecca and this guy could come on our date tomorrow and make it a double date. I said yes and acted like it was no big deal (I can't just say no), but I feel really weird about it.
I would normally assume this means Sarah isn't interested. Bringing a friend along is a huge red flag. But Sarah has shown plenty of signs of interest otherwise, and I feel like if she didn't want to go on the date, then she wouldn't have agreed to it. Regardless of that, the date is on, and no backing out now. But having another couple there may be a big obstacle to me escalating with Sarah. I want to assume that Rebecca will have the decency to let things be between the two of us, being that she obviously knows Sarah is on the market and a guy just asked her on a date, but I don't know.
Really curious how I should handle this situation. Hoping to move things over to her place afterward, but wondering how to overcome obstacles.
Met 2 girls (let's call em Rebecca and Sarah, they're roommates) last Saturday at a cool bar in town. They were both awesome and talkative. Caught them on the way to go talk to a friend they spotted, so the conversation was pretty short, probably about 5 minutes. I move on and approach other girls. Fast forward an hour and a half, I catch these girls on the way out of the bar. Sarah says they're leaving, but "maybe I'll see you around. Do you come here often?" and of course I went in for the phone number right away.
Next day Sarah texts me first, apologizing for "being rude and walking away" when I was talking to them. I won't bore you with the details, but I set up a date a few texts later with ease.
I FB creeped on Sarah later that day (go ahead, judge me) to ENSURE she was single before moving forward. Believe it or not, a girl I recently went on TWO dates with told me she had a boyfriend AFTER the fact. Some girls really don't get it. And Sarah's so single she posted a rant about how she's sick of being single just a few days before. Okay, it's on. She wants it.
Earlier tonight I squared up logistics with her- we're meeting at a cool bar near her place tomorrow. Now here's where it gets weird.
Sarah called me about 3 hours later and said she had an "awkward request." And this awkward request had to do with Rebecca. See, Rebecca met a guy on Tinder and has a date tomorrow. Apparently Rebecca is nervous about it (understandable, given the nature of a thing like Tinder and the fact that girls are generally more cautious), and they're both new to my city. As we all know, girls look after their friends. And Sarah asked if Rebecca and this guy could come on our date tomorrow and make it a double date. I said yes and acted like it was no big deal (I can't just say no), but I feel really weird about it.
I would normally assume this means Sarah isn't interested. Bringing a friend along is a huge red flag. But Sarah has shown plenty of signs of interest otherwise, and I feel like if she didn't want to go on the date, then she wouldn't have agreed to it. Regardless of that, the date is on, and no backing out now. But having another couple there may be a big obstacle to me escalating with Sarah. I want to assume that Rebecca will have the decency to let things be between the two of us, being that she obviously knows Sarah is on the market and a guy just asked her on a date, but I don't know.
Really curious how I should handle this situation. Hoping to move things over to her place afterward, but wondering how to overcome obstacles.
