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killerman

Cro-Magnon Man
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So this weekend I'm going back to london. I'll be seeing this girl when I'm there who I haven't seen for a year. Went on 2 dates last year and now she wants to see me again. I've been out of game for a while so I think I might have forgotten a lot or at least gotten pretty rusty. I think she might ask me if I'm seeing any other women in the city i'm from. What do I say if she asks me?
 

Seppuku

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Hey man,

You cannot say you don't, that would make you either a poor sexless chap, or a liar. You cannot say you do - at least directly - because what the hell are you doing with her then.

Keep her guessing. Either you have an enigmatic half answer - "well, I'm kind of an in-between period of my life...". Or you give a cocky, enormous answer "I have two girls. One in the morning for breakfast, the other late at night just before sleep" with a huge playful, teasing tone. She can't take you seriously, but you keep her guessing. And if she comes back, you hold your position firm.

Other convo I used before:
Her: How many ...
Me: (interrupting her) any question starting with how many is a wrong one :)

I've seen two types of girls. Those who more or less suspect, but don't want to know for sure. These ones avoid the questions, so no need to shove it to their face. And those who suspect, but their curiosity (about how many) is too high. These ones will insist, again and again and again. Up to you, but in this case I just tell them with no shame.

Cheers,
Seppuku
 

killerman

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what if I tell her I had a girlfriend for a while but then she went back home to asia and since then i've had a few here and there? which is what has actually happened.
 

Seppuku

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She probably doesn't want to feel like "just another one of them". So you're still better off by keeping the mystery. Plus, it builds sexual tension.

Only if she really insists I would let her know.

Cheers
Seppuku
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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