Hi,
I have to go to a trip before christmas for work and I can't take my girlfriend with me and I am going to stay at my parents house. Because everytime we fought I've gone back there shes saying they are going to turn me against her and that I'll dump her.
Because of ticket availability I have to stay a week and she has to stay alone in the house. My parents can't pay for the ticket (they probably could) and shes saying they dont like her and her mother can't afford it. Which is moslty true because of this and other drama. She says that's the worst any boyfriend has done to her (staying alone 6 days, she's 27 years old).
Shes saying I should have wanted to go to her single mothers house instead.
Shes acting cold and her mother is not liking me and skyping her with bs like: his parents are not gonna let him come, and I need a date right now to prepare and can't be waiting for him to come (to drop some presents say hi and go????!!!!!!!!).
She kind of threatened me saying she won't take any coldness or disrespect like 'I'm talking to my colleage, parents, can I call later?' or if I call her out on something (and if I want to break up (!!!???)), she doesnt know what shell do, sleep with other men and send pictures, etc.
She wants me to be to be there for her and that this is a test to see if I really love her.
She's gonna try causing truble and then blame me and my parents and that I wasnt there for her
What can I do here? Next?
She's also trying to get the 'boundaries of the relationship' saying she needs to meet new men to make connections to find work and because shes going to be alone for so long, women dont like her (100% true, guys 'like' her because shes hot). She hasnt found work in 2 years. She doesnt have any friends at the moment. I'm not sure what to say here. Personally I woudnt want her going with any guys for work or otherwise. I told her I'm going for work and not meeting people. What should I do here? Should I say exactly waht I want from her or is that too insecure/needy?
I have to go to a trip before christmas for work and I can't take my girlfriend with me and I am going to stay at my parents house. Because everytime we fought I've gone back there shes saying they are going to turn me against her and that I'll dump her.
Because of ticket availability I have to stay a week and she has to stay alone in the house. My parents can't pay for the ticket (they probably could) and shes saying they dont like her and her mother can't afford it. Which is moslty true because of this and other drama. She says that's the worst any boyfriend has done to her (staying alone 6 days, she's 27 years old).
Shes saying I should have wanted to go to her single mothers house instead.
Shes acting cold and her mother is not liking me and skyping her with bs like: his parents are not gonna let him come, and I need a date right now to prepare and can't be waiting for him to come (to drop some presents say hi and go????!!!!!!!!).
She kind of threatened me saying she won't take any coldness or disrespect like 'I'm talking to my colleage, parents, can I call later?' or if I call her out on something (and if I want to break up (!!!???)), she doesnt know what shell do, sleep with other men and send pictures, etc.
She wants me to be to be there for her and that this is a test to see if I really love her.
She's gonna try causing truble and then blame me and my parents and that I wasnt there for her
What can I do here? Next?
She's also trying to get the 'boundaries of the relationship' saying she needs to meet new men to make connections to find work and because shes going to be alone for so long, women dont like her (100% true, guys 'like' her because shes hot). She hasnt found work in 2 years. She doesnt have any friends at the moment. I'm not sure what to say here. Personally I woudnt want her going with any guys for work or otherwise. I told her I'm going for work and not meeting people. What should I do here? Should I say exactly waht I want from her or is that too insecure/needy?
