Girlfriend possibly wanting to fool around with other girls?

[Omega87]

Initially when I met my current girlfriend and she mentioned she has crushes and such on other girls. I thought it was pretty hot. She mentioned she once had a sexual experience in her teens with her best friend, but that was it.

Lately she has been mentioning a desire to experiment with some of the girls at her work. I'm not sure whether she is serious or shit testing me. Either way I keep my cool. It's been many years since she's done anything like that so I'm not sure why it would suddenly emerge now. We've been together a while now so feelings have developed, if she is serious, I'm not sure what to think.

I know there is a bisexual girl at work who wants to get with my girlfriend, she's having a going away party this weekend and has suggested a sleepover. I'm pretty certain something will happen if the circumstances are right, and I'm pretty sure that's why she wants it to be a sleepover.

To be honest, I'm uncomfortable with the idea. I haven't told her this, and I've remained cool and light with it, but I'm being honest here in saying that the idea of my girl getting intimate with anybody else (guy or girl) feels shitty. I'm sure she would probably tell me about it before and after, I'm not worried about her being dishonest, I just think if she wants to fuck other people she should be single.

Is there a way of communicating this with her without losing respect and seeming like an insecure, jealous dipshit? Or is that just what I am...

Thanks

 

[Smith]

Threesome maybe?

Stick to your guns. I wouldn't tell her not to fool around with other girls now when she's only talking about it. Action speaks louder than words. We all have some sexual fantasies, but it doesn't mean we'll act on it.
I don't know if you're in an exclusive relationship with her, but if you are, you need to trust her, and not take what she says seriously. If she sleeps with other girls, I would break up with her. It's going to be really hard, but if she doesn't want the same thing as you in a relationship, it's time to let go. But think about it, it's not a bad thing. It will be your chance to re-grow yourself again to become better.

 

[luego]

She's your girlfriend. You're at least marginally jealous. That makes this not any sort of "open" relationship. This is a bad situation, and you need to nip it in the bud.

If she's bicurious, and you're open to it, talk openly about perhaps bringing another girl into the bedroom. But that should be a "no-risk" girl, that neither of you are going to get "involved" with. Definitely not a co-worker who already has the hots for her.