Girls boosting your ego in sex

[shaneawi]

Sometimes when I’m having sex with my gf of 3 years, she references my penis size.

for example she will sometimes say
“I love your big “d**k”
“It feels so big”

I’m between 6 1/4 and 6.5 inches and for my gf she said that I’m “big”. She’s had about 13 partners and a few with micro penis”s. I realize that “big” penis size is relative depending on the girl. I’m slightly above average but nothing crazy huge.

I’m wondering if when during sex she says these things and moaning is she being genuine or just boosting my ego?

 

[Derek da man]

If she said you had a small penis you'd immediately shrink and that would be the end of her pleasure wouuldn't it.

Treat if for what it is - her encouraging you to be more assertive, firmer, harder, give her more of what she's getting.

You should be returning the dirty talk to her too - use it to explore what else she might like - her barriers are down and she'll never be more open to telling you what excites her and what she wants that she wouldn't normally tell you.

 

[Skills]

Dude this is a normal part of sex and she is being honest, I am more worried about your insecurities and maddona whore complex you need to work on that to enhance your sex life and fantasies and get her to open up more...

 

[Regal Tiger]

I'm pretty much average, maybe even a little on the thin side, but I've got girls telling me shit like that from time to time. I've always just thought of it as "I like this, it feels great, must be because he's so big".

From my personal thoughts, I've always just assumed that she's into the sex with me more than most other guys (and to be fair, the bar is pretty damn low so it's not a hard feat lol) which in her brain must mean I'm huge (I'm not).

Also noticed this with more inexperienced women in general. Experienced ones haven't tried to talk about how big I am, regardless of how into it they are lol.