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Girls changing their opinion of you once you change your look?

killerman

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I was just wondering...is it possible for a girl who previously rejected your approach to then completely change her mind and become more attracted/interested in you once you change your look? Let's say you were 20-25% body fat and dressed like a slob, poor choice of clothes, poorly groomed hair, and then you went through a total overhaul, cut down to 8% body fat, got ripped, started dressing much better, well fitted clothes, got a sharp, sexy haircut, started using cologne...let's say you did that and massively improved your look, can those girls who previously rejected your approach, once they see your new look, can you get get them to change their mind and become attracted/interested in you? Have any of you guys experienced this?
 

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Let's say you were 20-25% body fat and dressed like a slob, poor choice of clothes, poorly groomed hair, and then you went through a total overhaul, cut down to 8% body fat, got ripped, started dressing much better, well fitted clothes, got a sharp, sexy haircut, started using cologne...let's say you did that and massively improved your look, can those girls who previously rejected your approach, once they see your new look, can you get get them to change their mind and become attracted/interested in you?

Of course lol

Imagine a girl went through that same transformation. Wouldn’t you feel attracted?
 
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No. But first of all, forget about 8% bf. I know social media give people body dysmorphia but that level of body fat will fuck up your skin, hair, nails, teeth, immunity and many other things, from aesthetics stand point 12% is all you need, even 10% would already be noticeable in terms of negative effects on your health (immunity will come first). I happen to know a guy who personally knows Lazar Angelov - guess what: all his photos are taken within just few weeks span and then he gains some fat back and just keeps posting them for the next few months.
Now about style: contrary to popular belief women don’t really care about your style, perfume, etc. It does help if you meet one for the first time and have a very limited opportunity window but other than that they don’t really care. Yet, marketing departments make millions on the idea that certain attribute will make girls fall in love with you. And what are the chances that you are going to meet that same random girl again? Unless you have a crush on a particular girl but the body transformation you described will take years of work, so doing it for one girl is kinda pointless.
 

killerman

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No. But first of all, forget about 8% bf. I know social media give people body dysmorphia but that level of body fat will fuck up your skin, hair, nails, teeth, immunity and many other things, from aesthetics stand point 12% is all you need, even 10% would already be noticeable in terms of negative effects on your health (immunity will come first). I happen to know a guy who personally knows Lazar Angelov - guess what: all his photos are taken within just few weeks span and then he gains some fat back and just keeps posting them for the next few months.
Now about style: contrary to popular belief women don’t really care about your style, perfume, etc. It does help if you meet one for the first time and have a very limited opportunity window but other than that they don’t really care. Yet, marketing departments make millions on the idea that certain attribute will make girls fall in love with you. And what are the chances that you are going to meet that same random girl again? Unless you have a crush on a particular girl but the body transformation you described will take years of work, so doing it for one girl is kinda pointless.
That's simply not true. I used to be in the 5-9% body fat range. In fact for 90% of my life I was at 5% body fat naturally and 95% of the time I was in the 5-9% range and I never had any problems with health, hunger. In fact it was a struggle just to get to 10% so what you're saying isn't true. It was in that range (5-9%) that I had people telling me that I look like a model and as soon as I got to 12% body fat that's when my face started to look like shit with excess body fat puffing up the face, and when I reached 16-20% body fat I actually started to feel like shit and my looks had TOTALLY become garbage, my face actually looked fat. It was gross. Female attention had totally gone down the drain. 5-10% is when I felt and looked my best so low body fat percentages are the way to go. 8-10% is the sweet spot. That's when you start to look chiselled. It is ABSOLUTELY sustainable, I proved it. But maybe not for most people as I have a very fast metabolism.
 
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Yeah they do. Haughty girls changed their opinion when they saw me in the pool. Also I recall back when I was a student ,some broad who acted too cool for school (pun intended), when I showed more upper body in the summer changed as well gave me sudden proximity
 

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The ultimate “change a girl’s mind about you” is social proof/preselection. Look up articles on the main site about it.
 

killerman

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That's simply not true. I used to be in the 5-9% body fat range. In fact for 90% of my life I was at 5% body fat naturally and 95% of the time I was in the 5-9% range and I never had any problems with health, hunger. In fact it was a struggle just to get to 10% so what you're saying isn't true. It was in that range (5-9%) that I had people telling me that I look like a model and as soon as I got to 12% body fat that's when my face started to look like shit with excess body fat puffing up the face, so low body fat percentages are the way to go. 8-10% is the sweet spot. That's when you start to look chiselled. It is ABSOLUTELY sustainable, I proved it. But maybe not for most people as I have a very fast metabolism.

The ultimate “change a girl’s mind about you” is social proof/preselection. Look up articles on the main site about it.
Does having 20,000 - 50,000 youtube subscribers count as social proof?
 

Zoro

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Does having 20,000 - 50,000 youtube subscribers count as social proof?
No. Ideally the girl sees you hanging out with other attractive girls who *could* be sleeping with you.

Those articles are great and help you understand female psychology. Look them up.
 
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