I noticed a trend happening to me. The girls that want me to close them and I dont seem to fall asleep on my lap when I am dropping them home. Why would a girl fall asleep before I drop her off? I tried to kiss and close her but nothing. Instead she says she is not that type of girl. Why would a girl fall asleep on ur lap at the end of the date or on her way home when u r dropping her off? Whats going on here?
Girls fall asleep after date when I am dropping them off home?
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I'm gonna assume these are first dates? If so I'm thinking a girl on a first date doesn't end up anywhere near a guys cock unless she's expecting something. It's too bold of a move for a girl to make. Those are obvious signals. If you don't escalate they pretend they're asleep. If you make a move then it's on. I'd make a move. A guy can only interpret a girls head on his lap in only one way so you can always save face if you make a move and they object. "What else was I supposed to think with your head on my lap?"
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That's like a guy "falling asleep" with his head in a woman's boobs. Theres no reason for a guys head to wind up anywhere near them except for something sexual.
These are first dates. I never hear back from them after the first date. Its like they want me to f$ck them but when i try they push away. At the end when i drop them off, they get nasty and i dont hear from them. So am i not being aggressive enough in my escalation? Cause i tried escalation but she said no. idk but these mixed signals are confusing me. Is there a step by step guide to escalating?
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Just seems to be pretty bold for a girl to rest her head on a guys lap on a first date. Girls wouldn't do a move like that unless they're looking for a move. If I were you if I'm driving and a girls head winds up on my lap start stroking their hair. Then move to touching their neck. Etc.
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they want you to close them but you don't? pls explain. why do you think they want you to close? why aren't you closing if you're sure it's game on?
HellAtlantic has some different ways of thinking. i've read some of his other posts. my first thoughts were a girl would pretend to be asleep so she didn't have to "let you down gently" like she's half asleep and opens her eyes: "where are we? oh home, thanks for a wonderful evening" **peck on cheek**
but now with that last post i'm thinking maybe HellAtlantic is onto something. could just be miscalibration on your part. like you're not making moves at all and then suddenly moving in for the kill, without gradually going through the phases so that she knows what to expect.
need more info to be sure
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Yeah I'm curious myself how the girl's head winds up on his lap. If she was legitimately tired or not interested wouldn't it be easier to rest head against the window (basically as far away from him as possible)? I interpreted his posts as the girl was basically saying "(this guy isn't making any moves so let me make this as easy as possible for him) oh I'm 'tired', mind if I rest my head on your lap" and he doesnt do anything. To save face she can play the "I fell asleep" card if he doesn't escalate but if he does then things would pick up quickly. I always interpret a girl initiating touch or crossing the touch barrier as her way of saying "make a move, idiot!". But yeah walk us thru how their head winds up on your lap.
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Putting their head in your lap is kind of a "boyfriend" "girlfriend" move. It's kind of affectionate... typically not something a girl would do on the first date. The fact that afterwards they get "nasty" and you don't hear from them sounds like you weren't aggressive enough.
You're probably missing cues and hints she's dropping (case in point, putting her head on your lap... not something she would do unless... she was interested in physical contact).
You should be touching her throughout the date. Touch on the shoulder or elbow during high points in the conversation. Sitting next to each other in a booth if you're eating a meal, legs next to each other, shoulders touching... incidental touch.
That's such a big flashing sign for a girl to put her head in your lap, saying she's "tired"...
You're probably missing cues and hints she's dropping (case in point, putting her head on your lap... not something she would do unless... she was interested in physical contact).
You should be touching her throughout the date. Touch on the shoulder or elbow during high points in the conversation. Sitting next to each other in a booth if you're eating a meal, legs next to each other, shoulders touching... incidental touch.
That's such a big flashing sign for a girl to put her head in your lap, saying she's "tired"...