I'm wondering something that's been around my head for some time.
I've just come from a party, and in it, (and others) I have noticed that a lot of girls (attractive ones too, of course), give me IOIs. I use my peripherals a lot, so I see when they see me coming and they just start posing, moving their hairs, trying to catch my attention.
We all know that an important factor to this comes with your fundamentals. And, in that regard, I'm pretty sure I'm fine (good posture, good walk, slowness, not making eye contact -peripherals-, etc).
My theory, I guess, is that the degree of attention you get from girls will depend both on your fundamentals and attractiveness. So I think a guy who is not attractive at all (imagine he is kinda ugly) but have great fundamentals might get IOI's to try to catch his attention (so he looks at the girl(s)) from unattractive or not too attractive girls, but not from attractive or really attractive ones. This doesn't mean he might not get them later from them, it's just that he will not receive IOIs from them (to catch his attention to make him look) at the first moment they see him (or pretty soon)
What I wonder is: If a guy is not good-looking at all and he has great fundamentals, will so many girls (attractive ones specially) try to catch his attention with IOIs so he notices them? Do really attractive girls do this with every guy (good looking or not) just to be seen so they feel desired? Does some of you experience this attention from lots of girls (including attractive ones, of course) since you enter a venue like a club or bar? If so, do you have both –fundamentals and looks-? one?
I really think this would be better answer from guys with intermediate to advanced skills who has experience and knowledge in this matter.
Cheers!
I've just come from a party, and in it, (and others) I have noticed that a lot of girls (attractive ones too, of course), give me IOIs. I use my peripherals a lot, so I see when they see me coming and they just start posing, moving their hairs, trying to catch my attention.
We all know that an important factor to this comes with your fundamentals. And, in that regard, I'm pretty sure I'm fine (good posture, good walk, slowness, not making eye contact -peripherals-, etc).
My theory, I guess, is that the degree of attention you get from girls will depend both on your fundamentals and attractiveness. So I think a guy who is not attractive at all (imagine he is kinda ugly) but have great fundamentals might get IOI's to try to catch his attention (so he looks at the girl(s)) from unattractive or not too attractive girls, but not from attractive or really attractive ones. This doesn't mean he might not get them later from them, it's just that he will not receive IOIs from them (to catch his attention to make him look) at the first moment they see him (or pretty soon)
What I wonder is: If a guy is not good-looking at all and he has great fundamentals, will so many girls (attractive ones specially) try to catch his attention with IOIs so he notices them? Do really attractive girls do this with every guy (good looking or not) just to be seen so they feel desired? Does some of you experience this attention from lots of girls (including attractive ones, of course) since you enter a venue like a club or bar? If so, do you have both –fundamentals and looks-? one?
I really think this would be better answer from guys with intermediate to advanced skills who has experience and knowledge in this matter.
Cheers!
