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Girls Hiding Interest due to Chase Frames

Kaida

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2 days ago I was walking a girl to class and I set a few chase frames:


Frame #1 “Aw, you’re smiling? Cant blame you, I would be smiling too if I was talking to me” (She was smiling hard/nervously)

Response: “Shut uppp”


Frame #2 *Said playfully* “Oh you dropped drama class? I can see why. You’re trying to hide ur smile so i know you can’t act” (She had her hand in front of her mouth to hide her smile)

Response: same as #1


The next day, I was getting up to walk next to her again, and even tho she knew I was coming she kept walking to get me to invest in getting next to her (I didnt really notice it was her baiting my investment until I reviewed the interaction).

And during the talk I could literally notice that she was suppressing the smile I chase framed earlier by pressing her lips together. I tried to fix by talking about her smile again saying it was adorable. (Not sure if that was a good move)

So basically my question is, how do you respond to a girl actively hiding their interest from you? How do I make them feel allowed to express it in full? Because this isn’t the first time something like this has happened



I was thinking deep diving or something to increase attainability, but the only time I talk to her is between a 3 minute walk between classes. I got to be time-efficient. She doesn’t have a phone either.
 
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Conquistador

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You came off way too strong by verbally setting those chase frames. HS girls esp during the day usually can't handle that sort of thing.
Because this isn’t the first time something like this has happened
Did you do that in those cases as well? Or did they just not feel comfortable expressing interest for other reasons? There are a lot of reasons why they might hold back.
but the only time I talk to her is between a 3 minute walk between classes. I got to be time-efficient.
Find a plausibly deniable way to invite her on a small group trip and get to know her from there.

Anyway...I feel you bro. Making girls feel allowed to want you is harder than it seems. Especially when they like you more than you do them, and/or are actually chasing you (case in progress ;).
 
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