I'm a beginner and i just recently learned how to cold approach. So i was on my way to a date some time ago and when i saw two pretty girls walking in my direction, because it has went so well with women who were alone before, i got cocky and thought "Eh, what the hell, this can't be too hard", picked one and told her i thought she was really pretty. She was charmed, major charmed.
But then i made a mistake, i looked at her girlfriend. Imagine medusa staring at you with the heat of a thousand suns, this girl was PISSED.
Then i made the second mistake, i called her out on it "What are you giving me that sceptical look for?" i asked, forcing a smile, trying not to melt under the heat. The moment i said that, she kinda arrogantly looked up and to the side.
I turned back to the girl i opened, said i had a meeting now, but would like to see her again and that we should swap numbers, but she said no thanks, she had a boyfriend, so that was that.
Later i thought about what happened and then i realized, the other girl was probably pissed, because i didn't tell HER that she was pretty (she was pretty indeed) and instead opened her girlfriend, who also turned out to have a boyfriend. So i guess she was mad at me for choosing the wrong one.
But now everytime i see pretty girls in girls only groups, i don't approach anymore, because i think that the other girls will be pissed because i don't tell them that they're pretty.
How should i go about this, should i just don't break circle and ignore the other girls completely or should i make a remark to the other ladies like "You're all really pretty ,too. But i really like your friend" ?
But then i made a mistake, i looked at her girlfriend. Imagine medusa staring at you with the heat of a thousand suns, this girl was PISSED.
Then i made the second mistake, i called her out on it "What are you giving me that sceptical look for?" i asked, forcing a smile, trying not to melt under the heat. The moment i said that, she kinda arrogantly looked up and to the side.
I turned back to the girl i opened, said i had a meeting now, but would like to see her again and that we should swap numbers, but she said no thanks, she had a boyfriend, so that was that.
Later i thought about what happened and then i realized, the other girl was probably pissed, because i didn't tell HER that she was pretty (she was pretty indeed) and instead opened her girlfriend, who also turned out to have a boyfriend. So i guess she was mad at me for choosing the wrong one.
But now everytime i see pretty girls in girls only groups, i don't approach anymore, because i think that the other girls will be pissed because i don't tell them that they're pretty.
How should i go about this, should i just don't break circle and ignore the other girls completely or should i make a remark to the other ladies like "You're all really pretty ,too. But i really like your friend" ?