Girls partners' count : #2 and sincerity (a bit too many times mathematically)

[lux7]

So guys, I was thinking about this the other day, I've been like the second man for a woman a number of times which is too high compared to how many times I've been the 1st, the 3rd or... Any other number for that matter.

Now, each single time I believed the girl and even looking back I still think most of them must have been honest (disclaimer: when you're not a liar yourself, you often tend to oversestimate other people's sincerity).
BUT.. Mathematically is still odd.


I was wondering, has it happened to you as well that you have been told you were only the second man a bit too many times or not?

Because, if so, then there might be a trend where some women take their number count to the lowest they can push it...

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: Girls partners' count : #2 and sincerity (a bit too many times mathematicall

That is basically what my gf told me, but over time various other bfs emerged, there seems to be at least her high school bf, her uni bf in Vietnam while she got her first degree and before she worked in a company, plus two bfs in Australia, so the presumption is she only slept with one of these dudes although one has to be skeptical, haha. She did volunteer the info that one of her Aussie bf was too much of a gentleman to do the deed (I have met him and he indeed seems like a really nice guy, apparently he ended the r/ship because a dude was trying to cut his lunch and it stressed him out, even though she didn't even like this other dude who was aggressive and sleazy), beyond that I did not inquire. I really couldn't care less what a girl's partner count is, so I don't really have these discussions and I suggest it's not a good idea because of the message it sends (that you care about her partner count), but yes I would be inclined to agree with your theory. Another statistical anomaly I noticed is 50% of girls seem to have their period when you escalate on first date. Funny about that
Ray