I’ve been in this situation quite a few times. I’m tall and good looking, but yet I don’t know if I fit in that well in a night club scenario. Often girls will randomly come up to me looking to get a photo. Of course I let them, but next thing I know they’re gone. Should I attach a condition somehow? If a girl, (or girls) come up to you looking to take a photo, you should be able to utilise that situation. It seems harder than you’d think.
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Smile politely, look like you're trying to hold back laughter, and wave them off gently as you tell them, "No Facebook photos please."
If/when they persist ("Aw why not?" "Please!" "It's just a photo!"), put on your best playful expression and say: "I'm sure I would look pretty in your newsfeed, but I don't even know you."
You'll usually get an introduction at this point: "I'm Jessica."
"Hi Jessica, I'm Virgin101. That's a really nice set of earrings you've got going on."
See if you can spin it into a conversation at that point. If she goes for the photo again before at least a minute of chatting with her, tell her, "Well wait, hold on, we're still getting acquainted."
Once she gets the photo, if she opts to leave, let her go, go meet some other girls, and then try to run into her 20 or 30 minutes later.
Chase
Smile politely, look like you're trying to hold back laughter, and wave them off gently as you tell them, "No Facebook photos please."
If/when they persist ("Aw why not?" "Please!" "It's just a photo!"), put on your best playful expression and say: "I'm sure I would look pretty in your newsfeed, but I don't even know you."
You'll usually get an introduction at this point: "I'm Jessica."
"Hi Jessica, I'm Virgin101. That's a really nice set of earrings you've got going on."
See if you can spin it into a conversation at that point. If she goes for the photo again before at least a minute of chatting with her, tell her, "Well wait, hold on, we're still getting acquainted."
Once she gets the photo, if she opts to leave, let her go, go meet some other girls, and then try to run into her 20 or 30 minutes later.
Chase