- Oct 18, 2018
Hey guys, I've been in this situation a couple of times where a girl shows signs of attraction/curiosity, I try to push the interaction forward and persist but ultimately get rejected. Ofcourse this is not mind baffling since rejection is common and can happen regularly. What has always surprised me though is that some girls who have rejected me in the past have gone into autorejection themselves after I have (usually swiftly) moved on. They get sad and angry. I never have understood this dynamic. I understand normal autorejection when I do not act on escalation windows, but I have never understood autorejection when a girl has placed serious obstacles, heavy resistance or rejection themselves. It doesn't make any sense to me. If there is any kind of savant around you, enlighten me. I seriously want to understand this now.