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This is probably a topic already addressed, I assume to a large extent, but I did not see any. So this thread is just for my own personal perspective and twist on this topic. I have not been able to get this down consistently and recently I have failed with this consecutively and would like to know how best to approach these scenarios. Even if the best choice (for me personally, anyways) is to simply not try when the girl is already emotionally enmeshed officially with another guy, and does not initiate sexual interest in you first.
I've been with no fiances.
One wife.
Didn't bother keeping track of boyfriends.
And this is also based on my observations, in addition to my experiences, although my experiences are more narrow than many people's experiences. Anyways, here are the lessons I have personally learned to do, please correct me where I am wrong:
1. Do not address her spouse at all, act like he doesn't exist. Don't address him until she addresses him. (At that point, disarming the guy is what you do, and this is not something I'm particularly good at, nor am I sure exactly how to manage this systematically, any time I did this successfully was on accident)
2. Show no jealousy and simply be the better man. Be more attractive in as many ways as possible as much as possible. In the traditional sense of being attractive.
NOTE: NOT IN HER TERMS OF WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE. WHILE SHE IS BITCHING ABOUT HER "ASS HOLE" BOYFRIEND AND HOW SHE WANTS A NICE GUY, FUCK TRYING TO BE THAT NICE GUY. THAT IS NOT WHAT SHE TRULY WANTS. OTHERWISE SHE WOULD BE WITH ONE LOL.
3. Completely ignore the kind of guy she wishes her boyfriend were and the kind of guy she paints as her ideal guy, the nice guy who treats her well and isn't an ass hole who makes her cry all the time and hurts her feelings and makes her feel insecure and makes her paranoid and makes her feel like she's being cheated on and whatever whatever whatever. Just ignore all this bitching.
4. DO NOT BE A SHOULDER TO CRY ON.
5. DO NOT GIVE HER ADVICE. WOMEN JUST NEED TO VENT. LISTEN I GUESS AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE. BUT DO NOT GIVE ADVICE.
6. Always be willing to take the shot, even if you're scared, as long as there is no real risk. Because it may be more possible than you realize, and may be much more easy than you realize as well. The only wife I have fucked was incredibly easy. I was surprised. It is because she has cheated on her husband before, I think I was her 3rd man she fucked while being married. The first man is the one who does the hardest work. As the 3rd man for her, she already had a routine to trick her husband. She was next to me naked after I came in her and she answered her husband's phone call telling him she was at her friend's house and was going to go pick up their kids soon.
(Whoo! Lost a lot of trust in women, that just keeps happening as I get better at seducing women LOL.)
Normally, a wife would seem impossible or difficult, I love redheads with fair skin, I figured she would get offended if I tried, but she was completely receptive and she even made more effort than I did logistically.
Thoughts? Corrections where I'm wrong or where my ideas can be improved?
Any further suggestions from more experienced guys on this topic?
I've been with no fiances.
One wife.
Didn't bother keeping track of boyfriends.
And this is also based on my observations, in addition to my experiences, although my experiences are more narrow than many people's experiences. Anyways, here are the lessons I have personally learned to do, please correct me where I am wrong:
1. Do not address her spouse at all, act like he doesn't exist. Don't address him until she addresses him. (At that point, disarming the guy is what you do, and this is not something I'm particularly good at, nor am I sure exactly how to manage this systematically, any time I did this successfully was on accident)
2. Show no jealousy and simply be the better man. Be more attractive in as many ways as possible as much as possible. In the traditional sense of being attractive.
NOTE: NOT IN HER TERMS OF WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE. WHILE SHE IS BITCHING ABOUT HER "ASS HOLE" BOYFRIEND AND HOW SHE WANTS A NICE GUY, FUCK TRYING TO BE THAT NICE GUY. THAT IS NOT WHAT SHE TRULY WANTS. OTHERWISE SHE WOULD BE WITH ONE LOL.
3. Completely ignore the kind of guy she wishes her boyfriend were and the kind of guy she paints as her ideal guy, the nice guy who treats her well and isn't an ass hole who makes her cry all the time and hurts her feelings and makes her feel insecure and makes her paranoid and makes her feel like she's being cheated on and whatever whatever whatever. Just ignore all this bitching.
4. DO NOT BE A SHOULDER TO CRY ON.
5. DO NOT GIVE HER ADVICE. WOMEN JUST NEED TO VENT. LISTEN I GUESS AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE. BUT DO NOT GIVE ADVICE.
6. Always be willing to take the shot, even if you're scared, as long as there is no real risk. Because it may be more possible than you realize, and may be much more easy than you realize as well. The only wife I have fucked was incredibly easy. I was surprised. It is because she has cheated on her husband before, I think I was her 3rd man she fucked while being married. The first man is the one who does the hardest work. As the 3rd man for her, she already had a routine to trick her husband. She was next to me naked after I came in her and she answered her husband's phone call telling him she was at her friend's house and was going to go pick up their kids soon.
(Whoo! Lost a lot of trust in women, that just keeps happening as I get better at seducing women LOL.)
Normally, a wife would seem impossible or difficult, I love redheads with fair skin, I figured she would get offended if I tried, but she was completely receptive and she even made more effort than I did logistically.
Thoughts? Corrections where I'm wrong or where my ideas can be improved?
Any further suggestions from more experienced guys on this topic?
