Give Her Space

[trashKENNUT]

Hi,

Apparently i have friends who keep insisting on their girlfriends without really letting them have a way out with things. This is usually associate with those nice guys, white knights. I used to do it too, and i lost some.

Recently, an ex friend of mine broke up and patch up with a girl friend of mine. It is terrible because he never let her have some space to cool down. So it became bad that she make him look like a dork, although he deserve it. OOps... I think that one should always be cautious in letting women have her own decision making and some space for her to breathe.

One thing i found that is universal to all areas of life including business, love, friendship, anything.

"People don't want to admit things are bad".

But if you do, and let it work out, don't hinder or force, retreat, refresh and restart. Often it will work out itself. Relationships often become stronger, better than the previous broken vase. Because when it's broken, you need to give her reasons to build a new one with you.

Just don't white knight though!.

Zac

 

[Just_Dave]

Hi,

I think that one should always be cautious in letting women have her own decision making and some space for her to breathe.

Zac

Hey Zac,

I do agree with your concept very much, one thing I noticed with my current girlfriend's coworker is since he's engaged and his relationship is failing he's trying to get in good with my girlfriend. This is no problem for me, as I trust my girlfriend and without that factor our relationship would've been done months ago.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Just_Dave, Dave

one thing I noticed with my current girlfriend's coworker is since he's engaged and his relationship is failing he's trying to get in good with my girlfriend. This is no problem for me, as I trust my girlfriend and without that factor our relationship would've been done months ago.

Apparently i got my message wrong here. I mean my friend whom i used to friends with break and patch up with his girlfriend many times, and often it blows up on twitter and facebook. This is bad to a point i actually didn't like him because i saw his real character.This is my responsibility also for not knowing who he is. Okay here's yours.

Your friend is trying to get in good with your girlfriend? Err... that's kind of a rebound he's looking for, from here i see.

Zac

 

[Just_Dave]

Hi Just_Dave, Dave

one thing I noticed with my current girlfriend's coworker is since he's engaged and his relationship is failing he's trying to get in good with my girlfriend. This is no problem for me, as I trust my girlfriend and without that factor our relationship would've been done months ago.

Apparently i got my message wrong here. I mean my friend whom i used to friends with break and patch up with his girlfriend many times, and often it blows up on twitter and facebook. This is bad to a point i actually didn't like him because i saw his real character.This is my responsibility also for not knowing who he is. Okay here's yours.

Your friend is trying to get in good with your girlfriend? Err... that's kind of a rebound he's looking for, from here i see.

Zac

Correction, never met the guy. It's her "friend" not my own, we have separate friends and life styles. And yes I see that too, but the main thing on my end is not to worry about him. Because since my girlfriend is attractive, her being hit on by other guys isn't a bad thing. Especially, since that just lets me know I have a very attractive girlfriend.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Just_Dave,

I am sure your girlfriend is loyal. Very Good. (Y) kk ciao

Zac