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I am good in bed, but can be better. I last mostly as long as I want, and give my gf multiple orgasms whenever we have sex.
The only problem I have is that they aren't those strong, uncontrollable shaking orgasms. I have only managed to get that kind of orgasm from her once, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong.
When she had that orgasm, I remember that I had her legs on my shoulders as shown here:
This position allows for deeper penetration than missionary, and I believe that this deeper penetration allowed me to stimulate her cervix, and make her have that leg shaking orgasm.
The reason why I believe the cervix is playing a role here, is because my gf often complains of pain and says the penetration hurts her stomach if I try that position I illustrated or doggystyle while she is not super turned on yet. But goes wild when I do it and she is very turned on.
Another factor I believe affecting this is that my penis has a noticeable downward curve, and I believe the legs over shoulder position is tilting her vagina up enough that the downward angle on my penis is still hitting her cervix, as I believe the cervix is located on the top part of the vagina, by the belly button.
My question is, is stimulating the cervix required to give women those mind blowing orgasms? I believe that it might be what I'm missing from my sex game, as I believe in normal missionary position my penis is not reaching the cervix and not giving as much pleasure as I could
I've devised a plan to start sex in the missionary position, and as she becomes more turned on, I can place her legs on my shoulders and take my time building up the intensity and penetrating her deeper, until she is comfortable and aroused enough for me to stimulate her cervix and make her cum hard.
Any thoughts welcome
Edit: I should probably specify that I am already giving her great orgasms that have her screaming in pleasure, but I want to level up my sex game and learn to consistently induce uncontrollable shaking full body orgasms. I feel like it's a puzzle that I'm only missing a piece or two to put together.
The only problem I have is that they aren't those strong, uncontrollable shaking orgasms. I have only managed to get that kind of orgasm from her once, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong.
When she had that orgasm, I remember that I had her legs on my shoulders as shown here:

This position allows for deeper penetration than missionary, and I believe that this deeper penetration allowed me to stimulate her cervix, and make her have that leg shaking orgasm.
The reason why I believe the cervix is playing a role here, is because my gf often complains of pain and says the penetration hurts her stomach if I try that position I illustrated or doggystyle while she is not super turned on yet. But goes wild when I do it and she is very turned on.
Another factor I believe affecting this is that my penis has a noticeable downward curve, and I believe the legs over shoulder position is tilting her vagina up enough that the downward angle on my penis is still hitting her cervix, as I believe the cervix is located on the top part of the vagina, by the belly button.
My question is, is stimulating the cervix required to give women those mind blowing orgasms? I believe that it might be what I'm missing from my sex game, as I believe in normal missionary position my penis is not reaching the cervix and not giving as much pleasure as I could
I've devised a plan to start sex in the missionary position, and as she becomes more turned on, I can place her legs on my shoulders and take my time building up the intensity and penetrating her deeper, until she is comfortable and aroused enough for me to stimulate her cervix and make her cum hard.
Any thoughts welcome
Edit: I should probably specify that I am already giving her great orgasms that have her screaming in pleasure, but I want to level up my sex game and learn to consistently induce uncontrollable shaking full body orgasms. I feel like it's a puzzle that I'm only missing a piece or two to put together.
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