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Don Giovanni

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Went out at midnight to catch up with friends. I’m wearing skinny jeans, black platform converse, black t shirt and yellow tribal pattern cardigan.

We went to a commercial club. I saw the girl of this report, very cute blonde with glitter on her face, a strong 7 22yo, from the other place of the dance floor. Now I’m with my friend near the bar, she’s dancing close to me. I’m careful about giving her attention, bumping into her accidentally to test the waters. A dude by the bar thought he offended me for some reason and offered to buy me a drink which I accept (coke, I’m sober).

Approach - introduction

Then my friend introduced me to the glitter girl, he wingmanned me good tonight. I take her hand, take the other hand, we dance close, then I leave some space, get close to her to talk to her some basic indirect stuff.

“you cone here often?”

“you look different, you remind me of someone”

Isolation

Mix it with social/ sensual dancing then invite her out to smoke. Talk about meeting people, living in different countries, do cold reads. Build her up, tell her she’s smart, I like her individuality. Talk about how you get caught in the same old friend groups while you grow as a person and how that might restrtict you therefore when meeting new people you can start fresh and more genuine, true to who you are now. I had my hands on her thigh, hair, chin. Jokingly read her future that she’ll meet a stranger with big dick who’ll make her life a mess.

AMOG (weak)

Then a big (goodlooking I guess) dude comes and introduces himself, tells her she’s beautiful. Keeps apologising for making things awkward while I tell him that yeah she’s beautiful, being polite with words with him while making closed off body language. When i have enough of him I put my hand on her thigh again when telling her something then he leaves.

Escalation

Some small talk that I let die off into triangular gazing then kiss her. I could’ve done that earlier, I think she was waiting. Break it off, ask her what she likes to do for fun, she says dancing then I tell her to teach me how to dance. On the dancefloor? No, I meant here in the smoking area. We dance slowly while I escalate, tell her she’s a good kisser.

Pull

Tell her I do music and as she’s a graphic designer I wonder what cover art she would make for my unreleased song. She says she’ll need to hear it and I say maybe later. Then her friend comes saying goodnight that she’ll go home. Friend tells us the big dude was looking for her as I took her out. I promise the friend I’ll take care of my girl.

Some small talk as we’re alone, then I tell her that we should go hang to my place and I can show her the song. Call a cab, say goodbye to my friend inside, while she waits outside then we go.

30min - 45min max

Talk about how I get why girls aren’t feeling safe at night like in other cities I saw a lot of catcalling but here is ok. Then small talk and we’re at mine.

Escalation to sex

Offer her a glass of water then we’re making out again on sofa. My shirt, her shirt abd bra comes off. Do asd prevention sex is unfair routine, then take her to my room and other clothes are off. She’s on her period so I put an extra sheet underneath.

Can’t get out of my head

Couldn’t stay hard though thinking about the hiking girl, who I’m starting to fall for and who’s pushing for a relationship. Then she tells me she never had a boyfriend and has been with 2 guys before me. Makes me think even more. As I put on a condom on I loose half of my erection. Then I try to go bareback but can’t stay hard anymore. She’s moaning like she hurts as I’m about to penetrate her so I just pull back and tell her we can just cuddle.

I tell her what’s going on with me, about the other girl, reassure her, sweet talk her but she’s getting doubts now as well saying stuff like “I don’t kow what I’m doing as well, this is new to me”. I know I fucked it up here, but don’t care so much.

She tells me how she wants someone in her life but every guy is just objectifies her. But I’m differen’t she says, she feels like I know her. She’s very comfortable with me and likes that I like her for who she is.

We try again but same stuff happens to me again then she’s sorry that she can’t do it as well.

That’s on me though. If my doubts wouldn’t spill on to her she would be just fine. But it’s me who’s not confortable really.

I had tip of my half hard dick inside her before I stopped. I’m not sure if this should even be a LR, not a FU or LR- or something else, but because it was PIV it feels to me like a LR. Admin feel free to change that if you think necessary.

Aftermath

We cuddle, enjoy eachothers company and I make sure to make her feel good about herself. Then we dress up and I accompany her to the city bike stand where we separate. She asks for my phone number and I tell her we can meet tomorrow for coffee “maybe if she feels like it”. I say that because I thought she was hinting at it and I want her feel good about everything then she says she’ll see if she have time and I leave everything open. We’ll see how we both feel about it tomorrow.

Angry at myself for having such a pretty girl in my bed and not performing. Like what the fuck is wrong with me. Probably I just need to sleep this one over.
 
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mist

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As always rule out the biological shit before you internalize impotence

Alcohol, sexual health, sleep, blood flow, porn use, testosterone etc

if those are in check you are free to look into psychological

Focus, arousal, state, oneitis, desire, confusion etc

All these physical and psychological impact her performance as well and ability to receive you. She is just as self conscious if not more about if she is pleasurable to you, sexy, smells good, maybe even imagining you as someone else thinking of something distracting etc etc

all impact a girl's experience and performance just as yours

in this specific case she seemed intensely focused on you and giving you a great time that'd make her feel good as well

had a frustrating lr- recently (was completely on me) but through that we still had a nice experience (DM me if you wanna talk it out. Not posting it.)

lesbian mode activated (iykyk)

Lot's of ways to enjoy sex and hell by just having fun with it and her you may find little wee wee is ready to big weeee as the pressure has left and the presence has entered

Don't internalize "ma dick don't work" if you are getting erections throughout your day or when you desire - you are in great shape...if you get erections with porn, not the best but not a curse to your performance or time to whip out the viagra

besides this girl likes you quite a bit and you met her randomly

Weird how it goes

one down with hiking chick who has female player behavior as @Hector Papi Castillo noted and sorta one up with this pretty girl you had a nice night with being a lover

but hey enjoy your night and whatever tomorrow brings you'll likely be on new horizons in 10 years regardless with completely different feelings and reality.

always important to remember that shit changes and you have changed. Hiking girl is here now but will she be in 10 and 5 years ago who was your "hiking girl" then? Where's she? Where are you?

Wish you whatever makes you happy man, even if that means you come back in 6 months maybe year or 2 with news hiking girl was the one

Or you keep being a lover to women and rock their socks off make them feel understood.

Whatev it is I'll likely still read it and in the end you'll be alright with some adventures to tell

peace
 

Swati

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She's hawttt! You did really well, and kept calm with AMOG, having an incredible wing that throws you girls like this. Is probably from the previous sex sessions you've had with the hiking girl that made you calm, and non-needy and she senses that you are pre-selected.

Your rank should be raised. You have done a decent amount of effort in NIGHT GAME and I know you will come out great. Regardless of how your current situation goes.

I believe getting this girl locked in with you would help with the emotions you are having with the hiking girl.

In terms of your own mental relating to LTR maybe you can find my or others' previous experiences and draw some decision makings from, no expert here.

🔫🧙 !5
 

Don Giovanni

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Alcohol, sexual health, sleep, blood flow, porn use, testosterone etc
Don’t drink, slept ok past couple of days, don’t use porn, don’t know about blood and testosterone but I feel fine. I exercise regularly.

I did have sex and came the same day, that might've pushed it over the edge.

All these physical and psychological impact her performance as well and ability to receive you. She is just as self conscious if not more about if she is pleasurable to you, sexy, smells good, maybe even imagining you as someone else thinking of something distracting etc etc

all impact a girl's experience and performance just as yours

in this specific case she seemed intensely focused on you and giving you a great time that'd make her feel good as well
I know it went both ways… Hope she didn’t take it to heart too much. Out of my control now, I did my best at that moment.

Don't internalize "ma dick don't work" if you are getting erections throughout your day or when you desire - you are in great shape...if you get erections with porn, not the best but not a curse to your performance or time to whip out the viagra
That's the plan!

For sure it was the hiking girl, because I kept going back to her in my mind. Told her she needs not to worry about anything as I'll probably be working at home whole weekend as she seemed stressed out by the fact of not seeing me for 3 days. I felt bad for her, I felt shame, which is kind of the opposite of desire.

I plan on reframing the situation in my mind to be more beneficial for both me and all girls involved. It is true though that the edge that I get from gaming is what attracted both girls the most, so if I gave that away for the sake of one girl she would loose the very thing that she liked in the first place. A beast is not happy in captivity.

I'll give my best tomorrow when seeing the hiking girl having a clear head and a strong frame telling her about it. How exactly I'm going to do that I'm not sure yet, all suggestions welcome!

but hey enjoy your night and whatever tomorrow brings you'll likely be on new horizons in 10 years regardless with completely different feelings and reality.

always important to remember that shit changes and you have changed. Hiking girl is here now but will she be in 10 and 5 years ago who was your "hiking girl" then? Where's she? Where are you?
Nothing really matters in the end, does it?

Wish you whatever makes you happy man, even if that means you come back in 6 months maybe year or 2 with news hiking girl was the one

Or you keep being a lover to women and rock their socks off make them feel understood.

Whatev it is I'll likely still read it and in the end you'll be alright with some adventures to tell
Hey, thanks for reading, replying and good intentions! Take care!
 

Don Giovanni

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She's hawttt! You did really well, and kept calm with AMOG, having an incredible wing that throws you girls like this. Is probably from the previous sex sessions you've had with the hiking girl that made you calm, and non-needy and she senses that you are pre-selected.

Your rank should be raised. You have done a decent amount of effort in NIGHT GAME and I know you will come out great. Regardless of how your current situation goes.
Hey man, you know I appreciate it!

I believe getting this girl locked in with you would help with the emotions you are having with the hiking girl.
Playing with the idea right now, yes. First I have to test my frame with the hiking girl, then maybe I can even introduce them. Just thought experiments... Or maybe it all blows up in my face, I need to stay humble about it...

In terms of your own mental relating to LTR maybe you can find my or others' previous experiences and draw some decision makings from, no expert here.
Will do.

😉
 

TomInHo

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Nice pull but it sounds like you just had a bout of sexual anxiety. Probably a combination of the chick being hot and also having one-itis for the hiking chick

Honestly I don’t understand why you had to tell this girls about hiking chick. That’s pretty ridiculous that you’re in bed with a new chick but then venting to her about some other girl… not cool man and can tell this chick liked you and was eager to please and a gesture like that is a slap in the face

Some things are better left unsaid and radical honesty is not always the best policy

Look I get that you dig the hiking chick but you have to remind yourself that you don’t even really know her. Emotions can go wild when you meet a new girl that you click with but what you feel for her isn’t even real yet

What you feel right now is infatuation not love so take your time G. Do your best to ride the emotions and over time they will settle down and you’ll be able to think more clearly

How you’re feeling right now is very normal when you’re new to relationships. With more experience you’ll get used managing the feelings of infatuation

PS: Would be wise to focus on each chick individually for a while before you start thinking about combining them with each other
 
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Went out at midnight to catch up with friends. I’m wearing skinny jeans, black platform converse, black t shirt and yellow tribal pattern cardigan.

We went to a commercial club. I saw the girl of this report, very cute blonde with glitter on her face, a strong 7 22yo, from the other place of the dance floor. Now I’m with my friend near the bar, she’s dancing close to me. I’m careful about giving her attention, bumping into her accidentally to test the waters. A dude by the bar thought he offended me for some reason and offered to buy me a drink which I accept (coke, I’m sober).

Approach - introduction

Then my friend introduced me to the glitter girl, he wingmanned me good tonight. I take her hand, take the other hand, we dance close, then I leave some space, get close to her to talk to her some basic indirect stuff.

“you cone here often?”

“you look different, you remind me of someone”

Isolation

Mix it with social/ sensual dancing then invite her out to smoke. Talk about meeting people, living in different countries, do cold reads. Build her up, tell her she’s smart, I like her individuality. Talk about how you get caught in the same old friend groups while you grow as a person and how that might restrtict you therefore when meeting new people you can start fresh and more genuine, true to who you are now. I had my hands on her thigh, hair, chin. Jokingly read her future that she’ll meet a stranger with big dick who’ll make her life a mess.

AMOG (weak)

Then a big (goodlooking I guess) dude comes and introduces himself, tells her she’s beautiful. Keeps apologising for making things awkward while I tell him that yeah she’s beautiful, being polite with words with him while making closed off body language. When i have enough of him I put my hand on her thigh again when telling her something then he leaves.

Escalation

Some small talk that I let die off into triangular gazing then kiss her. I could’ve done that earlier, I think she was waiting. Break it off, ask her what she likes to do for fun, she says dancing then I tell her to teach me how to dance. On the dancefloor? No, I meant here in the smoking area. We dance slowly while I escalate, tell her she’s a good kisser.

Pull

Tell her I do music and as she’s a graphic designer I wonder what cover art she would make for my unreleased song. She says she’ll need to hear it and I say maybe later. Then her friend comes saying goodnight that she’ll go home. Friend tells us the big dude was looking for her as I took her out. I promise the friend I’ll take care of my girl.

Some small talk as we’re alone, then I tell her that we should go hang to my place and I can show her the song. Call a cab, say goodbye to my friend inside, while she waits outside then we go.

30min - 45min max

Talk about how I get why girls aren’t feeling safe at night like in other cities I saw a lot of catcalling but here is ok. Then small talk and we’re at mine.

Escalation to sex

Offer her a glass of water then we’re making out again on sofa. My shirt, her shirt abd bra comes off. Do asd prevention sex is unfair routine, then take her to my room and other clothes are off. She’s on her period so I put an extra sheet underneath.

Can’t get out of my head

Couldn’t stay hard though thinking about the hiking girl, who I’m starting to fall for and who’s pushing for a relationship. Then she tells me she never had a boyfriend and has been with 2 guys before me. Makes me think even more. As I put on a condom on I loose half of my erection. Then I try to go bareback but can’t stay hard anymore. She’s moaning like she hurts as I’m about to penetrate her so I just pull back and tell her we can just cuddle.

I tell her what’s going on with me, about the other girl, reassure her, sweet talk her but she’s getting doubts now as well saying stuff like “I don’t kow what I’m doing as well, this is new to me”. I know I fucked it up here, but don’t care so much.

She tells me how she wants someone in her life but every guy is just objectifies her. But I’m differen’t she says, she feels like I know her. She’s very comfortable with me and likes that I like her for who she is.

We try again but same stuff happens to me again then she’s sorry that she can’t do it as well.

That’s on me though. If my doubts wouldn’t spill on to her she would be just fine. But it’s me who’s not confortable really.

I had tip of my half hard dick inside her before I stopped. I’m not sure if this should even be a LR, not a FU or LR- or something else, but because it was PIV it feels to me like a LR. Admin feel free to change that if you think necessary.

Aftermath

We cuddle, enjoy eachothers company and I make sure to make her feel good about herself. Then we dress up and I accompany her to the city bike stand where we separate. She asks for my phone number and I tell her we can meet tomorrow for coffee “maybe if she feels like it”. I say that because I thought she was hinting at it and I want her feel good about everything then she says she’ll see if she have time and I leave everything open. We’ll see how we both feel about it tomorrow.

Angry at myself for having such a pretty girl in my bed and not performing. Like what the fuck is wrong with me. Probably I just need to sleep this one over.


Yeah this has happened to me as well(you have onitis), for context read this, so you understand probably what was happening in your head.... Also, for cases like this, i explained why you got a always be prepare and carry a bit of help...
 

Skills

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Nice pull but it sounds like you just had a bout of sexual anxiety. Probably a combination of the chick being hot and also having one-itis for the hiking chick

Honestly I don’t understand why you had to tell this girls about hiking chick. That’s pretty ridiculous that you’re in bed with a new chick but then venting to her about some other girl… not cool man and can tell this chick liked you and was eager to please and a gesture like that is a slap in the face

Some things are better left unsaid and radical honesty is not always the best policy

Look I get that you dig the hiking chick but you have to remind yourself that you don’t even really know her. Emotions can go wild when you meet a new girl that you click with but what you feel for her isn’t even real yet

What you feel right now is infatuation not love so take your time G. Do your best to ride the emotions and over time they will settle down and you’ll be able to think more clearly

How you’re feeling right now is very normal when you’re new to relationships. With more experience you’ll get used managing the feelings of infatuation

PS: Would be wise to focus on each chick individually for a while before you start thinking about combining them with each other
actually i disagree, I have field tested when i give shitty sex or not perform telling a girl a sappy story of how my head is not right cause i just got out of break up.... I heard other guys doing similar, Julian rsd did similar when he did shitty sex could not perform....
 

TomInHo

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actually i disagree, I have field tested when i give shitty sex or not perform telling a girl a sappy story of how my head is not right cause i just got out of break up.... I heard other guys doing similar, Julian rsd did similar when he did shitty sex could not perform....

Whenever that has happened I just don’t make it a big deal. First round might be meh but usually if you just calm down and vibe you’ll notice you get aroused and can fuck again

Never needed to come up with stories to explain myself. More like oh well it happens I’m human but let’s keep chilling

Then get into teasing and foreplay later and walaaa… pipi is happy and alive again
 
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